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I’ve been reading your diary for a while but not commented before. I just want to wish you all the best for tomorrow. Independence Day for you 🥳I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)4
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Many of us are wishing you all the luck and all the Joy that you so deserve.Really hoping you can achieve a peaceful transition to your new life. (((hugs))) XXXI Believe.....
That it isn't always enough, to be forgiven by others.
Sometimes, you have to learn to forgive yourself.
Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery
Today is a gift. That's why it is called the present.
happiness isn't achieved by getting extra things,
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I also have read your diary but not commented until now. The way you have coped with your situation is admirable and I admire your tenacity in paying off your debts but with a positive, can do approach all the way through. Even when your daughter had her bike accident and ended up in hospital you showed how resilient you were by taking everything in your stride. Wishing you and your daughter all the best for your future life together.1
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Have been reading along , wishing you all the best in your new home you are awesome.Life is an adventure, never stop exploring.0
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Another lurker de lurking here. I have followed your story from the beginning and have so admired your integrity and determination. I wish you all the strength and courage for tomorrow and will be praying it all goes smoothly for you and your daughter. Will be checking in regularly throughout the day. May this be a new beginning for you and your daughter. All the best wishes.2
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I'm more concerned for you than when I left a very abusive husband and fled with a few dollars and a baby. We made it out ok and I pray you do too. I'm 81 years old now but can still feel the pressure and fear. He was ex cop and still had buddies on the force. Every time I moved he knew where I was. Finally a nice cop told me how he tracked me. My drivers license. Apparently he was building up to killing me. I fled. I didn't change my name or addy until I got word he had died. That was a long time ago but even though you may feel your husband is not violent, please take care. I'm rooting for you along with many others.
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Hope tomorrow goes as smoothly as possible. Well done on creating a sanctuary for you and your daughter.paydbx2025 #26 £890/£5000 . Mortgage start £148k June 23 - now £138k.
2025 savings challenge £0/£2000 EF £140. Savings 2 £30.00. 171 -
Sending all the good vibes for you for today - can’t wait to read your update telling us you’re finally free!
Paws xDebt Jan 2017 = £42kMay 2022 = £15k2 -
Know you'll be manic today @Kakiste but looking out for updates when you can. Love Humdinger xx1
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Wishing you the very best on what will no doubt be an initially difficult day, but hopefully you'll be posting later to let us know you are safe and finally free!MFW
Starting debt :£287,410 -11/2020
2022 Closing balance £271,402.45
2023 closing balance £263140
Original end 11/2045
New end date :.......
Overpayments to date £574.4 (1/26)1
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