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Welcome to the weekly Flylady Thread.
What is FLYLADY? Well, it's our version of the US flylady idea - but we work on
the principle that housework is not fun, it's boring, can be time-consuming, is
often thankless but, unfortunately, necessary. It's here on Old Style to
provide the support we all need and to make the whole task easier and quicker.
We also accept that, sometimes, life just gets on top of us and we can't keep
up, maybe because we're time-poor, not in the best of health and/or we have
littlies who need us. We are definitely NOT control freaks aiming for
perfection and utterly spotless show-homes.
You're more than welcome to join us in the everlasting battle against dust,
grime and gibble. The aim of our thread is to make those onerous tasks less
daunting, and to support each other - and to make time for the finer things in
life!
Please do remember we have to abide by MSE rules; each post should, ideally,
include some mention of flying.
Thank you Valli for last week's thread.
Please follow the forum rules on this thread as Flylady has been here a LONG
time and is a fabulous support and resource for lots of us. All posts should
have some Flylady-related content! (i.e. it should be on-topic)
The idea is that even if you are really busy you don't need to fall off the
wagon!
Every room comes back around next week so please don’t stress about catching up
These lists are only suggestions and not a must do list; you are more than
welcome to post and follow your own lists.
Also adding a declutter mission each day will help to gradually clear the
clutter and make flying easier.
A few of the basics before we start the week -
Hotspots are areas where if one thing gets put there, loads of other
things follow!
Daily routines are anything you need to do on a daily basis like washing,
swish and swipe kitchen and bathroom, ironing, making beds, vacuuming high
traffic areas, making meals etc.
Night-time routines are all things which make getting ready in the morning
easier, preparing clothes for the next day, making lunches, swish & swipes
of the kitchen and tidying the living room before you go to bed plus personals
like shower/brush teeth etc.
Fling Boogie - stick on some loud music, grab a bin bag and whiz around
the house finding items that can go out with the rubbish, recycling, for
charity shop, basically anything that will stop it cluttering your home.
Swish and swipe/S&S means have a quick wipe over an area such as a
sink or toilet to prevent the build up of dirt. This is usually done on a daily
basis
HHE/HHC/HHI Half Hour exercise/challenge/ironing ... run around for
30 minutes to the Benny Hill music frantically
cleaning exercising or ironing.. .other music may be used if you prefer!
WM ~ Washing machine
TD ~ Tumble dryer
SC ~ Slowcooker
BM ~ Breadmaker
DW ~ Dishwasher
SOAADFA ~ Sit on 'bottom' and do 'nothing'
KH/XH/FW ~ Ex-husband and other not so polite versions
DH/DD/DS/DW/DP ~ Dear husband/daughter/son/wife/partner/whatever
OH/SO ~ Other half/significant other
NN ~ nice neighbour
Toxic (friend/mother/sister/whoever) ~ person in your life
that seems to exist to make your life miserable
AF ~ Aunt Flo 'time of the month'.. nothing to do with flying but
it comes up often.
ETA ~ Edited to add
Gibble ~ miscellaneous crap that appears forever homeless
Dot-to-dot ~ pick a small area (not a whole room) like a
chair/coffee/table/shelf/worktop or wherever- that’s your first 'dot' - totally
clear it - clean it - and only put back what should be there - deal with what
you have removed (not just move it somewhere else) then if you have time move
on and do the same to another 'dot' -the idea is just like a dot to dot puzzle,
you aim to join up all the dots and have a tidy room. The trick is to keep each
dot tidy until you get them all joined up! All credit to former
Flylady AnW's Mum for this one
RoD ~ Room of Doom, the one room that feels like it is a permanent
pit and cannot be used to its potential!
MAD half hour - Mad is the abbreviation for Make A
Difference.
The idea is that you have a Forth bridge (ie never-ending - or just huge) task
but that you work on it in half-hour bursts. This way you know you ARE
stopping, and that you won't get it finished but you will make a difference -
so it might be clearing out - the garage or shed, or clothes sorting, or
weeding - you get the picture - but rather than keep going until you've lost
the will to live you do half an hour...but, eventually those half hours will
get the job done!
Frog (or other amphibian) ~ google 'eat that frog'
Spoons ~ google 'but you don't look sick' and/or 'The Spoon
Theory'.
Mr S/A/T/M/L/Al - supermarkets Sainsburys, Asda, Tesco, Morrisons,
Lidl, Aldi. You get the picture!!
Click here to read Toots wonderful welcome guide
Magnificent Monday - Kitchen
and dining room
Level One
Clear and wipe worksurfaces
Wipe and replace small appliances
Level Two
Sweep and mop the floor
Scrub down the front of
units and large appliances
Clean oven and hob
Level Three
Wash windows and sills
Degunge the fridge!Go round the whole house wiping door handles, light switches and banisters - we WILL be germ-free!
Extras
- Thoroughly clean the cutlery drawer!
- Run the WM's and DW's through a clean cycle
- Clean all the filters and door seals etc
- HHI
- 15 minutes gardening..
Terrible Tuesday ~ Master bedroom and Landing
Level One...
strip the bedding and
get it washed.. air the duvet
Mattress vacuumed,
turned, vacuumed on other side and and then redress bed
Level Two...
Deal with the
floordrobe
Wash the windows
Wipe all the doors and
frames upstairs
Level Three...
Vacuum floors
Tidy a cupboard/chest
of drawers
Dust and deweb.. inc
bed frame!!
Wipe sill, sockets, door handles and switches and anywhere fingers linger
Extras
Binbag dance
Binbag for charity
Sort out your own shoes and bags.. can any be rehomed?
Wipe
hand rails on stairs
15 minutes weeding
Wednesday - Living pit, hallway, stairs!!
Level One...
Declutter the floors!
Vacuum/mop floors
& stairs!
Level Two...
dust over all the
electrical appliances.. be careful though I don't want any accidents!
Vacuum under the
furniture you can safely move!
Clean the sofas
Level Three...
Declutter the inside
of a cupboard or drawer!
Degrot the under stair
space/cupboard.. I'm good to you all I know!
Dust mantle and polish
any display cabinets or bookshelves etc
Extras
Wipe and water the plants
Clean out the pets
Wash any smelly soft furnishings
Get a pile of filing done!!
Thursday - bathroom, study and other grotty places!
Level One..
Clean the floors in
these rooms
De-grot the
loo/bath/shower/sink etc
Level Two...
Wash the windows
Empty and clean out
the bins
Clear and clean a
shelf or cupboard and put back only the necessary items
Wipe all switches, handles, rails, light pulls etc.
Level Three...
Clear the desk of mess
and mush.. get rid of those
Wash down ALL the
dining chairs..
Drag out the pc desk
and clear under and behind it ... Don't you just love me!?
Wipe down door handles, light switches and anything else you touch
Extras - binbag list! We are doing something different today...
Fill a binbag for charity shop
Fill a binbag for the bin
Fill a binbag for a friend
Fill a binbag for recycling!
Compulsory Extra..
Turn on your favourite song and sing REALLY loudly along with it! .. I don't
care if you all sound like strangled cats.. I want you to sing for me! I find
it really lifts a cloudy mood!
Funky Friday - Brats rooms, spare rooms or wherever!
Level One...
Declutter the dog
shelf
Binbag dance!
Level Two...
Strip and wash the
bedding
vacuum and turn
mattresses and remake
Drag all the junk from
under the bed and place it all where it is meant to be!
Vacuum floor
Level Three...
Wash the windows
Deweb, dust and
destickify the room!
Straighten the
cupboards of clothes!
Make sure you have all choccie eggs, if you are buying them, bought for
Sunday.
Extras
Empty all the bins!
Clean out all the pets!
Wipe over all the paintwork
S&S the kitchen!
Declutter Challenge 2025
DH declutter challenge award 🏅⭐️
Comments
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Thanks Natty. Mr N and I are going to be making a huge effort.Remember...a layer of dust protects the wood beneath it.15
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Morning xx
I'm in :-) Thank you for the lists xx Just having a brew; then I'll make a start.
Rxx
IT ONLY TAKES SMALL DAILY ACTIONSFOR MAGIC TO HAPPENRosemary Ikpeme13 -
Morning all x
I'm in for the week thanks to Natty and Valli for the thread x
I've been awake since just after 3 I'm shattered but I just can't sleep.
Have the list so I better make a start.I'm not a muggle...I'm just magically challenged14 -
Morning all, thank you for the lists. I am in. First job, slurp a brew and walk the dog.
Have lovely days all xx14 -
Morning all. I'm in again this week.
So pleased it's kitchen day today as that is the last place in the main house that needs a spring clean and thorough sort
First need to get on with bedroom,
Windows open
Bed stripped
Clothes picked up
WM on
See you all later
14 -
Morning. I'm here too.
I am aiming to do at least Level 1 each day this week. If I can do more, I will, but I've still got lots of paperwork to deal with and phonecalls to make, and I also need to do some gardening each day, to keep on top of the weeds.
Hope everyone has a good Monday xx13 -
Morning all. Thanks for the list.
I let the dogs out at six but went back to bed and have only just got up again. Will finish this cuppa then do my physio.Have a great day everyone.Spend less now, work less later.14 -
funfairprincess - I was awake in the night and I wondered whether you were too. Hugs xx
Yesterday I couldn't settle enough to read and I ate enough to satisfy a hippo - I guess I must be stressed. I also forgot to take my meds last night - that's another sign that my head is a shed.
So I'll be taking steps to unwobble my weeble today - and I started by getting up at 6.40 am (which is around my usual time to get up) instead of turning over, finally falling asleep, and waking up feeling carp at 9am (which is what happened yesterday). I am also planning on going to bed at 10pm - my usual bedtime - having slipped into staying up until midnight. Sweetie is glad to hear this - he knows when bedtime is and I've been messing with his routine too. Most confusing for a little bird who has no idea what Covid19 is!
Round 1 =
have a shower / wash my hair
get dressed in clean clothes
Round 2 =
feed the birds
put out the rubbish and recycling
fill Sweetie's seed and water
Baby steps today.
Stay safe
Rxx
IT ONLY TAKES SMALL DAILY ACTIONSFOR MAGIC TO HAPPENRosemary Ikpeme12 -
Morning all,
Thank you for the list. Boy, do I need to do every level of today’s. Realistically, it might be level 1 and catch up tomorrow.I was in the Wide Awake Club last night too. I’m now in front of the work laptop for the foreseeable. But with my cuppa and the overnight oats that I actually remembered to do last night. Wm is on. It rained in the early hours, but a brilliant blue sky has just appeared, so hopefully I will hang the washing out later.
Have a lovely, safe day all. X14
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