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Life After Lockdown

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  • Grogged
    Grogged Posts: 866 Forumite
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    It all sounds very cathartic, it's good you're looking forward as it's so easy to get stuck in the past and it's negativity.
    Keep up the good work and track the progress you're making. 👍
    If it's not adding up, compound it!
  • V8D
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    I haven't read Millionaire Next Door - is it worth it? Generally speaking, I'd say you're right. Just feels difficult to be nowhere close to reaching my goals (which are admittedly pretty high... 😂) when others have so much more but don't need to worry about making mistakes / business / career choices etc. to the extent I do. Being a single-income household can be a little disheartening too at times as reading some of the diaries on here, having two full-time incomes makes a lot of difference.

    Anyway, definitely looking forward and I do appreciate everyone has their own struggles. 🙂 

    This month's non-bill spends have looked like this:
     Food  £              271.16 
     Petrol  £                58.03 
     Dog food  £              125.60 
     Other - refund for some work I stopped doing a while back £              140.00 

    Spends were way less than they usually are as we are hardly driving and only shopping once every ten days or so. Probably won't need to buy much dog food in May. The refund was a one-off thing; I was going to complete the outstanding work but as the lockdown started and it became apparent that it was going to carry on for a while I decided to give the money back rather than having work hanging over me from a second business I have finished running. Just wanted a clean break from it, I suppose.
  • South_coast
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    V8D said:
    I haven't read Millionaire Next Door - is it worth it?
    Being a single-income household can be a little disheartening too at times as reading some of the diaries on here, having two full-time incomes makes a lot of difference.
    Hmmm, not sure on the book. I didn't get a lot from it, but I've seen people on here raving about it. It seemed to labour over the points to try and reinforce the message a bit too much for me. 

    I hear you on the single-income thing. I was astonished to discover a few weeks ago that my bills each month add up to £913 when I thought I was living cheaply (no paid-for TV, no landline, no broadband, work pay for my mobile etc), but it's only in the last couple of days that's it's clicked that that's because I'm paying for EVERYTHING! That's a big chunk of money, however much you earn. My BF and I live apart, which I can't see changing for at least 20 years, but I winced the other day when I realised that between us we're paying £238 a month on council tax, despite both getting a 25% single-occupancy discount 😯!
    Mortgage start: £65,495 (March 2016)
    Cleared 🧚‍♀️🧚‍♀️🧚‍♀️!!! In 5 years, 1 month and 29 days
    Total amount repaid: £72,307.03. £1.10 repaid for every £1.00 borrowed

    Finally earning interest instead of paying it!!!
  • V8D
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    I've noticed a lot of money / self help type books seem to reinforce the same stuff over and over too. Managed to find a PDF copy and just had a look at the chapter titles.

    I'll be honest, I'm not bothered about being cash-rich. I like nice things and probably always will do. 🙂

    I was quite surprised when I totted my bills up. I do get my mobile bill back through my business but everything else comes out of our personal money. My husband loves spending money on various hobbies, some are shared and some aren't (who knew how much a model railway can cost to build??! 😂). 

    🙁🙁 re your council tax. It's definitely cheaper to live together. 
  • savingholmes
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    I read Millionaire next door last year. The problem is it is written for an American audience who on the whole have different pension and other accounts. It did reinforce the message to me though that if parents given what they called 'economic outpatient care' to adult children - it makes them rely on it and they end up earning less and remaining dependent and having less to show for it. Eg parents buys expensive rug for child - adult child then splashes the plastic to get stuff to match. Similar with paying deposits on housing - keeping up with the Joneses is harder as you are in an artifically high standard of living area compared to your income which causes problems etc. That made a lot of sense to me - as MIL has been kind to us over the years but when it stopped / slowed down dramatically we were left with bad habits etc.
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
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    2) £1.6K Net savings after CCs 14/8/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £25.3K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 31.1/£127.5K target 24.4% 15/8/25
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  • savingholmes
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    There were naturally exceptions eg teachers who were less likely to overspend as a result and genuinely seemed to benefit.
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
    2) £1.6K Net savings after CCs 14/8/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £25.3K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 31.1/£127.5K target 24.4% 15/8/25
    4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
    5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/25
  • I dont think I could cope without travel and holidays. At one point in my twenties I would go on holiday with anyone that could get time off 😂 have you thought about going away with friends or if none are free, looking into solo traveller trips, where you meet like minded people on an organised tour. I used to do these through ST@ travel, they do different age groups and styles. 
    Also maybe a separate personal spends budget would be beneficial so you both get the same amount to spend each month with no judging. Hope you feel better soon x
    Mortgage start date Nov 2014  - £90,545 over 25 years
    Re-mortgage Oct 2017 - 78,295 over 23 years
    Re-mortgage Jan 2020 - 55,000 over 26 years @ 1.94%
    Current Mortgage Outstanding Middle December 2020 - £
    47893.35 - a reduction of £42,652 in just over 6 years!  


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