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Worried about implication

My husband has just inherited part of his late fathers estate. It was split between the siblings as their mum & Dad were divorced. The siblings have set up a joint bank account in their own names and have requested that everyone deposits some of their inheritance into the account for their mother to use - she will have access to the bank cards (they say she can't have the money in her own bank account as it will affect her benefits). While we agree that she should have the money we are worried about the implications of this fraudulent bank account. I would appreciate any thoughts on this dilemma. 
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  • xylophone
    xylophone Posts: 45,750 Forumite
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    If the account is in the name of the siblings, the mother should not have access to the card for  the account.
    If the siblings wish to assist their mother with monetary gifts, perhaps they could agree to  pay her utilities bills or similar by DD  from their account.
  • 2e0arr
    2e0arr Posts: 1,007 Forumite
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    edited 11 February 2020 at 5:52PM
    They want the mother to get the money and continue to get benefits good for her and them. Your husband runs the risk of being part of benefit fraud
    Tell your hubby to spend his inheritance on you and him
    we pay enough for people on benefits
  • xylophone
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    edited 11 February 2020 at 6:15PM
    The  siblings' mother was divorced from their father.   He chose to leave part of his estate to his children (or perhaps they inherited under intestacy).
    Their mother's means are modest enough for her to be entitled to means tested benefits.
    They want to help her out financially - no reason why they should not do so.
    However, this does not mean that she should be given access to cards on an account which is not in  her name.
  • 2e0arr
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    edited 11 February 2020 at 8:52PM
    any money the kids give her as a gift should be declared especially if they need to open a bank account to facilitate the gifts."quote from the poster ,,, While we agree that she should have the money we are worried about the implications of this fraudulent bank account." the gifts are substantial enough to affect her means tested benefits. so avoiding affecting her means tested benefit is fraud.
     
  • xylophone
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    For the siblings to open a bank account to hold  their own money  (and the bequests are their money both legally and beneficially), is not illegal.
    It is not benefit fraud for them to make gifts to their mother - see link above.
    They should not make their debit cards available to their mother or any other third party.
    If they made lump sum gifts to their mother which brought her savings above the relevant amount for means tested benefits, the mother would have to declare the excess capital.
  • 2e0arr
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    its benefit fraud if mum doesnt declare the gifts as income.
  • xylophone said:
    If the account is in the name of the siblings, the mother should not have access to the card for  the account.
    If the siblings wish to assist their mother with monetary gifts, perhaps they could agree to  pay her utilities bills or similar by DD  from their account.

    Yep, this is the way to go.

    There are lots of ways they can help and keep it above board.  They can order an online food shop to be delivered to her regularly, they can set up DDs for her bills, they can take her clothes shopping, pay for a cleaner or ironing service, or gardener, put petrol in her car or put money on an account with a local taxi firm, they can take her on holiday at their expense, they can pay for repairs to her home. 

    What they can’t do is give her cold hard cash and try to hide the fact, or give her free rein of a bank account they are presenting as nothing to do with her. 
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