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Money Moral Dilemma: Should I let my husband sell his Nirvana T-shirt that I love for £80?

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My husband has a Nirvana T-shirt which I love to wear around the house. I made the mistake of telling him it could be worth a lot of money, and he found it's worth about £80. Now he wants to sell it, but I want to keep it. Should I let him?

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  • MSE_Kelvin wrote: »
    My husband has a Nirvana T-shirt which I love to wear around the house. I made the mistake of telling him it could be worth a lot of money, and he found it's worth about £80. Now he wants to sell it, but I want to keep it. Should I let him?


    How controlling. His t-shirt, upto him.
  • MidsHollie
    MidsHollie Posts: 292 Forumite
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    If you love it so much, buy it off him for £80. Except you probably don't love it '£80's much', so let him sell it

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  • Probably not best site to say this but... money isn't everything.
    I don't agree he should sell it when you wear and love it so much.
  • RussWWFC
    RussWWFC Posts: 573 Forumite
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    His T-Shirt, his choice. Should have kept quiet about it being worth lots
    Wycombe Till I Die
  • John_Gray
    John_Gray Posts: 5,844 Forumite
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    It's a T-shirt, for heaven's sake! It will wear out.

    Search on Amazon and you'll find a whole bunch of Nirvana T-shirts for less than £20. Buy four, and let your husband sell your (actually his) one.

    A more moral dilemma would be: does Nirvana have anything meaningful to say in the 2020s?
  • Is it "worth" £80 or has he found it "advertised for sale" at £80?
    I found something advertised for £5000 but looking at other places the same thing was selling for a fiver or not much more.
  • mjm3346
    mjm3346 Posts: 47,294 Forumite
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    If it's a piece of tat you just wear around the house then just replace it with another piece of tat that isn't worth anything
  • It’s his T Shirt let him sell it - you’re only wearing it around the house after all, so what does it matter?
  • REJP
    REJP Posts: 325 Forumite
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    You want it, give him the £80. These dilemma questions are getting silly now.
  • Middlestitch
    Middlestitch Posts: 1,486 Forumite
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    What exactly is the dilemma?
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