The modern dating game question?

MX5huggy

Deleted_User wrote: »

Message sent, he who dares lol...

There’s the clue SAS operations.

onwards&upwards

Ergates wrote: »

Not if the only thing you have is the phone number.

It’s been possible to send an SMS online since the nineties.

mutley74

Deleted_User said:

Ok so here goes, I divorced a few years ago and tbh I still don’t get the modern dating game but hopefully someone on here may be able to give me some advice.

I recently meet a very nice lady for coffee and we appeared to hit it off, too the point of agreeing to meet again for a drink.
Only problem was I had to go back to work for a few weeks so we said we would plan something in for next time I got home.

So my question is we haven’t messaged in a few weeks but I’m due home soon but now I’m not sure what to do next, so do I message her bearing in mind it’s a few weeks since we last spoke or messaged.

Do I simply message and ask if she still wants to meet up again now I’m home or is the fact we haven’t spoken in a while a sign she maybe not interested?

I would just message her if it was...leave her a voice message instead of a text on Whats App. Go for Just Do It!

sammyjammy

mutley74 said:

Deleted_User said:

Ok so here goes, I divorced a few years ago and tbh I still don’t get the modern dating game but hopefully someone on here may be able to give me some advice.

I recently meet a very nice lady for coffee and we appeared to hit it off, too the point of agreeing to meet again for a drink.
Only problem was I had to go back to work for a few weeks so we said we would plan something in for next time I got home.

So my question is we haven’t messaged in a few weeks but I’m due home soon but now I’m not sure what to do next, so do I message her bearing in mind it’s a few weeks since we last spoke or messaged.

Do I simply message and ask if she still wants to meet up again now I’m home or is the fact we haven’t spoken in a while a sign she maybe not interested?

I would just message her if it was...leave her a voice message instead of a text on Whats App. Go for Just Do It!

!!!!!!?  This thread was ended last year!  Did you search on the word submarine or something just to see what would come up!!!

Grumpy_chap

Maybe @mutley74 is the person that @Deleted_User was messaging and this is the response after a suitable delay.  Nothing like taking things slowly and cautiously.

mutley74

Grumpy_chap said:

Maybe @mutley74 is the person that @Deleted_User was messaging and this is the response after a suitable delay.  Nothing like taking things slowly and cautiously.

I dont know the OP. Be interested to know how he got on!. 

Pollycat

mutley74 said:

Grumpy_chap said:

Maybe @mutley74 is the person that @Deleted_User was messaging and this is the response after a suitable delay.  Nothing like taking things slowly and cautiously.

I dont know the OP. Be interested to know how he got on!. 

If he wanted us to know, he'd log back in (hasn't since March) and update the thread.
Sometimes people post and just forget about it.

Barny1979

Pollycat said:

mutley74 said:

Grumpy_chap said:

Maybe @mutley74 is the person that @Deleted_User was messaging and this is the response after a suitable delay.  Nothing like taking things slowly and cautiously.

I dont know the OP. Be interested to know how he got on!. 

If he wanted us to know, he'd log back in (hasn't since March) and update the thread.
Sometimes people post and just forget about it.

He's been too busy in lockdown love with his new missus to be able to log on.

burner03

I expect he’s been going down with her in his submarine a lot

[Deleted User]

Ohhhh sorry i didn’t realise people were waiting on the outcome lol, anyway i did message her and she’d changed her mind and didn’t feel there was a connection (ouch lol)...