Daily Chat Thread Saturday 24 November

louidog

I know what you mean.....I have a friend who is loud and would get you in trouble but to be honest she is just a deeply troubled person. She has had a lot, and I mean a lot of emotional stuff to contend with in her life. It's like she has to be centre of attention all the time....it can be quite draining being with her at times!

tigtag02

postingalwaysposting wrote: »

mmm yes i see your point however i can make a scrapbooking page about me and write i am false ~ or can i

How about false courage PAP ~ false in the sense of the above is the LAST thing you are

louidog

It's me again....

I think that sometimes people who are "up front" do it to cover up their anxieties etc!

postingalwaysposting

louidog wrote: »

I know what you mean.....I have a friend who is loud and would get you in trouble but to be honest she is just a deeply troubled person. She has had a lot, and I mean a lot of emotional stuff to contend with in her life. It's like she has to be centre of attention all the time....it can be quite draining being with her at times!

well i am kinda like that, dont want to be centre of attention but i use being loud (ans as i put it ~ i put my face on) to cover up how i really feel (we shant go there) but i am stuck :rolleyes:

louidog

'er actually, I can be like that too!
You know, make fun of myself before anyone else does.....

Oh dear, drats, I am being found out now ain't I

postingalwaysposting

what about concealing, or is that just stupid?

tigtag02

postingalwaysposting wrote: »

well i am kinda like that, dont want to be centre of attention but i use being loud (ans as i put it ~ i put my face on) to cover up how i really feel (we shant go there) but i am stuck :rolleyes:

erm, , me too ~ I think PAP it's a more common trait that what you would think. You need to turn this particular part of your personality into a positive (for which there is no reason it shouldnt be) before you scrapbook it anywhere

There is nothing wrong with wanting to be liked

tigtag02

postingalwaysposting wrote: »

what about concealing, or is that just stupid?

Right lets think shrek (dont panic yet, you'll see where I am going with this )

Onion.....Layers....Peel them back.

Tough outer layer is brash and *hard*, keep peeling to the soft and sensitive inner bit

Am I making sense or just talking 1am bollox :rolleyes:

postingalwaysposting

tigtag02 wrote: »

erm, , me too ~ I think PAP it's a more common trait that what you would think. You need to turn this particular part of your personality into a positive (for which there is no reason it shouldnt be) before you scrapbook it anywhere

There is nothing wrong with wanting to be liked

welll i am trying to scrap me ~ well kinda its i am... and i want to do negaitves and positives so i am not... and then on the other side that was going to be a positive i am... i want it to be the truth :rolleyes: the 10 things i am so far are, natural, passinate, complex, unusual, magnificent, priceless, unique, secluded, different, lonely and this one (if i could describe it)

louidog

I think for most (OK, me!) I know only too well that I am overweight and so will always make a point of telling everyone that I know that they know I am fat....but why!?!?!?!?

Do I think it makes it easier on me? I dunno but I feel strangely better after I have let everyone know that I know that they know....if you know what I mean!