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Half way through Dmp but losing the will to live!

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  • Wirbs
    Wirbs Posts: 34 Forumite
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    Household Information[/b]
    Number of adults in household........... 1
    Number of children in household......... 3
    Number of cars owned.................... 1

    Monthly Income Details

    Monthly income after tax................ 2300
    Partners monthly income after tax....... 0
    Benefits................................ 208
    Other income............................ 0
    Total monthly income.................... 2508


    Monthly Expense Details

    Mortgage................................ 445
    Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 0
    Rent.................................... 0
    Management charge (leasehold property).. 0
    Council tax............................. 100
    Electricity............................. 160
    Gas..................................... 55
    Oil..................................... 0
    Water rates............................. 48
    Telephone (land line)................... 20
    Mobile phone............................ 20
    TV Licence.............................. 13
    Satellite/Cable TV...................... 20
    Internet Services....................... 30
    Groceries etc. ......................... 330
    Clothing................................ 30
    Petrol/diesel........................... 120
    Road tax................................ 15
    Car Insurance........................... 60
    Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 30
    Car parking............................. 40
    Other travel............................ 40
    Childcare/nursery....................... 265
    Other child related expenses............ 35
    Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 10
    Pet insurance/vet bills................. 15
    Buildings insurance..................... 40
    Contents insurance...................... 20
    Life assurance ......................... 0
    Other insurance......................... 0
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 40
    Haircuts................................ 20
    Entertainment........................... 20
    Holiday................................. 0
    Emergency fund.......................... 50
    Total monthly expenses.................. 2091



    Assets

    Cash.................................... 0
    House value (Gross)..................... 60000
    Shares and bonds........................ 0
    Car(s).................................. 250
    Other assets............................ 0
    Total Assets............................ 60250



    Secured & HP Debts

    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Mortgage...................... 67000....(445)......5
    Total secured & HP debts...... 67000.....-.........-


    Unsecured Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    unsecured loan.................7467......19........5
    barclaycard....................6411......102.......0
    barclaycard....................5690......78........0
    barclays.......................305.......30........0
    barclays.......................393.......5.........0
    moorcroft......................778.......24........0
    lowell financial...............733.......23........0
    lowell financial...............889.......23........0
    mbna...........................1504......26........0
    mbna...........................2296......26........0
    Total unsecured debts..........26466.....356.......-



    Monthly Budget Summary

    Total monthly income.................... 2,508
    Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 2,091
    Available for debt repayments........... 417
    Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 356
    Amount left after debt repayments....... 61


    Personal Balance Sheet Summary
    Total assets (things you own)........... 60,250
    Total HP & Secured debt................. -67,000
    Total Unsecured debt.................... -26,466
    Net Assets.............................. -33,216
  • Wirbs
    Wirbs Posts: 34 Forumite
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    I've missed off about £40 in tax credits there. Please excuse me. I didn't get asleep until 5am thanks to next door
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,139 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    So maybe it would help if you can show how much that you pay to your DMP? Ta :)
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    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,139 Ambassador
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    beanielou wrote: »
    So maybe it would help if you can show how much that you pay to your DMP? Ta :)

    Sorry, just seen your post above.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,139 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    So basically if you take into account your DMP payments as they stand you have nothing left.
    If you don't wish to extend the time of your DMP then I really think that you do need to think about bankrupcy.
    If you redo your SOA with realistic figures my guess is that you would only need to pay a small amount to that per month.(If anything)
    I think it would give you a clean slate & that you would be much happier.
    Something for you to think about :)
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Willing2Learn
    Willing2Learn Posts: 6,294 Forumite
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    Or as an alternative to bankruptcy, you could self-manage your DMP and pay just £1/month to each creditor for the first 12 months, which will give you £4K+ to do emergency repairs to your boiler and heating system.
    I work within the voluntary sector, supporting vulnerable people to rebuild their lives.

    I love my job

    :smiley:
  • Wirbs
    Wirbs Posts: 34 Forumite
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    I've never even thought about it like that. I thought the whole point was that every spare penny went on the DMP. I spend my life in dread of something going wrong that I can't cover. They gave me £50 a month emergency to save up for the boiler but that's not happened and it'd take me 4 years to save enough at that rate.
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,139 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Also please do get in touch with the benevolent fund & explain the situation.
    I am sure they will help in whatever way they can with the heating/windows.
    Hope this helps :)
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Wirbs
    Wirbs Posts: 34 Forumite
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    One issue that worries me tho (one of many). My childcare costs to the official provider were £51 pw (this will go down to £30 in September). However, my mum has had to give up doing overtime to help me so I have to give her a sub. They won't take that into account will they? And what if they say I'm paying too much for things and haven't sacrificed enough? I've been to Macdonalds twice this week-will that count against me? I'm laughing but it worries me
  • Willing2Learn
    Willing2Learn Posts: 6,294 Forumite
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    You need to re-assess some of your expenses. You should be able to save something on your household insurance and groceries. Your clothing budget needs to go up. Your monthly electricity/gas costs are very high (or is that down to your boiler not working properly?) And don't forget your £40/month tax credits. Is your water metered?
    I work within the voluntary sector, supporting vulnerable people to rebuild their lives.

    I love my job

    :smiley:
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