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what do I REALLY need for my home?

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We are hoping to be moving into our first proper home as a family since moving to Scotland.
Since the split with my Ex-hb.
its me and 8 kids moving into a 3 bedroom property.
apart from our clothing and personal possessions which we have I am trying to work out exactly what we 'need' to start out. Our current house is fully furnished so I will be starting again.

I have already bought and put away:
cutlery/crockery
kitchen pans and utensils
tupperwear/lunchboxes and kids cutlery/crockery
a bookshelf
a table and chairs
my bed and one Childs bed
clothes airers
1 wardrobe

so far I'm thinking I need
Fridge, cooker, w-machine
3x bunkbeds for the kids
1 single bed for eldest
somewhere to store clothing/stuff

this would just be to get us started off and I can add to this at a later date, I will of course be prioritising beds and our kitchen white goods, eventually I will look at sofa etc.

can anyone suggest anything else, have I missed anything important?
I want to keep our new home as minimal as possible.
Just a single mum, working full time, bit of a nutcase, but mostly sensible, wanting to be Mortgage free by 2035 or less!
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  • Siebrie
    Siebrie Posts: 2,971 Forumite
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    You seem to have the esentials covered. TV and comfy chairs/sofas can wait.
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  • caronc
    caronc Posts: 8,526 Forumite
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    edited 24 July 2019 at 8:08PM
    I think you've got your priorities right but it might be worth seeing if you have any organisations like this operating in your local area https://www.facebook.com/cfrcfurniture/ for things like bed bases, wardrobes, sofas etc. While a sofa or chairs might not be absolutely essential I think having nothing to sit on might be hard going especially when autumn/winter comes and you might be able to pick something up at a reasonable cost until you can save up for what you want. Clothes rails could be a cheap solution instead of wardrobes initially and would allow to work out how the bedroom space works out for the children. Good luck.
  • kimplus8
    kimplus8 Posts: 994 Forumite
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    I was thinking about rails initially,I’ll check out the facebay for second hand ones and tbh I will probably get a second hand sofa to see us through if one comes up cheap enough.
    Just a single mum, working full time, bit of a nutcase, but mostly sensible, wanting to be Mortgage free by 2035 or less!
  • grunnie
    grunnie Posts: 1,795 Forumite
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    I usually put spare furniture etc on freegle or freecycle. Given and also received lots of useful stuff.
  • Frith
    Frith Posts: 8,741 Forumite
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    Kettle and toaster?
  • ScarletRibbons
    ScarletRibbons Posts: 2,527 Forumite
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    Hi, some of the charity shops have really nice furniture, sofas, chairs, dining tables etc.

    I'd bear that in mind
  • villagelife
    villagelife Posts: 3,047 Forumite
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    I've used British heart foundation in the past for furniture. Very reasonable price, there was a fair selection and they deliver. They were very friendly and helpful too.
  • richj
    richj Posts: 273 Forumite
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    microwave?
  • Have you a branch of The Furniture Project near you? We have donated quite a bit of stuff that we have been replacing. It's then sold on cheaply to those in need.
    "If you dream alone it will remain just a dream. But if we all dream together it will become reality"
  • Working_Mum
    Working_Mum Posts: 823 Forumite
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    Have you thought about things like a small toolbox containing screwdriver, hammer, duct tape etc?? Useful if you need to fix something. I wouldn't be without paper and notebook for planning stuff!

    Another vote for Freecycle here - I relinquish lovely, good quality items via Freecycle - in fact I sold my home last year and furnished a lady's one bedroom flat for her (she had been escaping a violent relationship and had nothing). If you keep an eye on it in your area you'll be amazed at what people post - you can make a request for items too.

    Good luck with your new home, sound like you're giving yourself and your kids a new start, stay strong and remember kids don't need stuff they need love and consistency!
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