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pania

hey guys, thankyou! I'm just being stupid, feeling sad at OH situation and that life always seems to be "on hold" when you're in debt. A boat that I know we are all in!! call it the "day-before-new-years-eve syndrome"

Have been offered a free ticket to NZ and with current situation with OH it is soooooo tempting to just bug ger off for a few weeks and then come back a bit later. Just being stoopid. sorry!!

Hey Karma, How are you? and you stuntman?

Lots of love,
P
xxx

spud30

Hugs Pania - sorry, I've been sorting out DS :rolleyes:

A free ticket to NZ - is it out of the question for you to go?

theunknownstuntman

you're not being silly P, it gets to us all at times you know. its that time of year too. Is it possible to use this free NZ ticket??? GO!!!!!! have a break, you deserve it. May i ask whats going on with the OH? Want me to come down and have a chat? I'm ok honey.

Snaggles

Go to NZ!! Is there any way you could manage to go? It might do you good.

pania

Spud, the apology really is not needed hon, DS is FAAAAARRRR more important that me having a stoopid blub!! and that's what it is!
using the ticket is not out of the question, Not at all! OH and I have had a long chat tonight and think we both know what the net result is going to be and i'm hoping that as it seems we both agree it can be completely mutual and therefore nice and friendly (or as nice as these things can ever be!)
So escaping to NZ for a while would be an absolute god send!!! (then I could find a sheep rustler, be whisked off to the maorilands and become chief shepherdess forever more!!! oh ok then, maybe not!!! I'd have to pay for my accomodation and food while i'm over there but my best mate could put me up in the drivers flats so all i'd need to cover would be food.
A decision to be made that is marred in sadness as one decision would mean the loss of another, whatever way I go.

Feeling better today though!!!! :-)

Karmacat

Hi Pania

I'm good - had the day at the ballet with my sister and my mum, it was lovely, my mum loved my tree (7 foot tall piece of ash tree, painted gold & lots of deccies - it looks like the fairies made it, if I say so myself), so I'm pleased. Slightly miffed at a neighbour, taking out her grumpiness on me, and very angry at her also taking her grumpiness out on my 81 year old mother. No more parcels for my neighbour will be taken by *this* household. But all is well in the karma household, to be truthful.... now..... a free ticket to NZ? Are you nuts to be thinking about it? Go, woman. GO! Right now! Get your luggage trolley out right now!!!! Fantastic.

pania

theunknownstuntman wrote: »

you're not being silly P, it gets to us all at times you know. its that time of year too. Is it possible to use this free NZ ticket??? GO!!!!!! have a break, you deserve it. May i ask whats going on with the OH? Want me to come down and have a chat? I'm ok honey.

You'd be more than welcome stuntman!!!!

Veeeeery long story btwn me and OH, more than likely reached the end of the road shall we say.

Free NZ ticket is for March. ooooh I might not come back!!! :rotfl:

theunknownstuntman

pania wrote: »

You'd be more than welcome stuntman!!!!

Veeeeery long story btwn me and OH, more than likely reached the end of the road shall we say.

Free NZ ticket is for March. ooooh I might not come back!!! :rotfl:

Go to NZ, its lovely and you WON'T come back trust me. I've read your past posts and I'm sorry I've not been around enough for you. I'm really sorry lovely. I'll come and have a "chat" if you want. Did I mention I'm 6'5" and built like a brick outhouse??? Just give me the nod and I'll come and have a chat.

ZTD

pania wrote: »

So escaping to NZ for a while would be an absolute god send!!!

You should go - free ticket to the other end of the planet doesn't pop up every day...

Just don't forget to write...

Karmacat

Wow again. March... lots of time for the situation to change. It does sound like its on the verge of changing anyway. To be honest, though a plane ticket sounds really fantastic, I can understand your hesitation. Take your time - it sounds like a dream come true, but its Real Life - you know the right answer for you, not someone else, not even any of us, astonishing as that might seem!