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Giving Notice to a Lodger

I guess there's no right or wrong here, but how have you given your lodgers notice?

I've had one for about 6 months who's been unsatisfactory in so many respects, and have finally decided he has to go. Do I tell him all the things he's done wrong (I've already told him many of them as they occurred), give no reason, or make up some story about a long-lost aunt returning from abroad and needing the room?

What are your experiences?
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  • GrumpyDil
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    I'd keep it simple as no need to be critical of someone's activity. Just state that you don't feel things are working and give him the relevant notice period.
  • theartfullodger
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    What does lodger agreement say about giving notice? Follow that.
  • AnotherJoe
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    The less you say, the fewer chances of causing offence or getting into an argument "OK I'm sorry i wont paint the ceiling in my room black any more so can i stay now".
    Just say due to personal reasons you are giving them notice and they need to leave on or before X date.
  • FreeBear
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    In the notice I gave my last lodger, it was kept short and simple...
    You are hereby given notice to vacate by the end of the month. I will endeavor to provide assistance in facilitating your move if required.

    The last part would have been simply to change the locks on the date specified :D
    In the end, it wasn't required, and he left quietly and without drama.
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  • Nmob
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    I am a lodger with no lease or agreement. What rights do I have in terms of notice? Can I be immediatley ejected?
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  • Nmob wrote: »
    I am a lodger with no lease or agreement. What rights do I have in terms of notice? Can I be immediatley ejected?
    You don't, really. You need an agreement asap.
  • FreeBear
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    Minimal rights, you can be ejected with no notice or you could return one day and find the locks have been changed.


    Even with a contract, your "rights" are limited, and a properly worded contract may well have a clause permitting immediate termination - The contract I use has such a clause that could be invoked for such things as illicit drug use or severe disorderly conduct.
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  • scd3scd4
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    How about just a polite notice of a week or two. Sometimes lies are better..............I just want my own space for the foreseeable future.
  • Honeylife
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    What does in say in the Agreement? A month or two weeks? Try to honour whatever the Agreement says, just give him adequate time to find somewhere else.

    Practice a bit with a friend or in front the mirror, but I think saying things are not working for you is really adequate. Then confirm in writing with the date you expect him to leave.
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  • DigForVictory
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    If you usually talk to the guy, pretty much read aloud the letter you then hand him.

    Do not justify yourself - as he may argue, or decide you're an unspeakable scoundrel. Take the reputational hit if any & get rid with as much calm professionalism as you can muster.

    For pete's sake hand over the letter though. All being well, it'll be accepted as one of those things & he'll move off without additional fuss but you need to dance through the correct legal forms scrupulously & that's usually easiest done by letter.
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