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Giving up/ Cutting Down Alcohol Thread Part 16

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  • arsenalbarnie
    arsenalbarnie Posts: 581 Forumite
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    Honey_Bear wrote: »



    Would you (and the family) normally have been drinking when you got together? It really is a social lubricant, and it's only when we cut back or stop that we realise just how irritating a lot of people can be!

    7/31 please, Shaggy.

    Yes Honey bear I find that with my friends. No have been feeling a bit miffed lately about how much I do at home. My kids who live at home are all adults but it’s still ‘mum what’s for tea’ every night. My OH spends a lot of his time lying on the bed watching telly as sitting hurts his back. I think I get so p*ssed off at times it’s a reason why I reach for the wine bottle. I need to man up and make them do things or do a Shirley Valentine. My favourite film! Will be putting my feet up for five days on Friday, but will be constantly worrying about my pooches.

    Thanks Glendasugarbean.

    Total weight lost 6.5/73lbs starting yet again. Afds August 10/15. /8 Sept.
  • arsenalbarnie
    arsenalbarnie Posts: 581 Forumite
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    Forgot to say 3/16 please Shaggy.
    Total weight lost 6.5/73lbs starting yet again. Afds August 10/15. /8 Sept.
  • CuppaTea
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    Thanks all. I’ve preventative plans for every evening through until Sunday. But that will be day 12. As long as I eat early it seems to be ok.

    Awful nights sleep though. Kept waking up and didn’t feel like I had much deep sleep.

    Well done GreenKaren for your brilliant run of days. That’s amazing. 31 seems huge for me but I’m just looking at 1 day at a time.

    I’ve lost 2lbs this week. Nothing’s changed except no drinking. However I can’t afford to lose any really, so I need to be mindful I don’t lose anymore. Sorry that’s really annoying for those that are dieting. I understand how hard it is for some.
    Live for the moment and plan for the future
  • sukeyboo
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    Wishing you a happy, relaxing holiday arsenalbarnie :)

    Congratulations on your 50 days in a row Green Karen :T:T:T

    4/12 for today please Shaggy
  • CuppaTea
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    Yes Honey bear I find that with my friends. No have been feeling a bit miffed lately about how much I do at home. My kids who live at home are all adults but it’s still ‘mum what’s for tea’ every night. My OH spends a lot of his time lying on the bed watching telly as sitting hurts his back. I think I get so p*ssed off at times it’s a reason why I reach for the wine bottle. I need to man up and make them do things or do a Shirley Valentine. My favourite film! Will be putting my feet up for five days on Friday, but will be constantly worrying about my pooches.

    Thanks Glendasugarbean.


    That would really annoy me too. It might be time to sit everyone down and explain how you feel and that you’re not a servant to them all. Adult children can stay in a child role without meaning too. Time to sort out a rota?
    Live for the moment and plan for the future
  • shaggydoo
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    edited 9 May 2019 at 5:18PM
    GreenKaren 3/5 yoga-smiley-emoticon.gifyoga-smiley-emoticon.gifyoga-smiley-emoticon.gif
    Maggie 3/5yoga-smiley-emoticon.gifyoga-smiley-emoticon.gifyoga-smiley-emoticon.gif
    Shaggydoo 3/5yoga-smiley-emoticon.gifyoga-smiley-emoticon.gifyoga-smiley-emoticon.gif
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    edited 9 May 2019 at 5:20PM
    May 2019


    yoga-smiley-emoticon.gif = 7 Days

    e5r5fp.jpg= 14 Days

    th_smiley_sun.gif= 21 Days


    angel.gif= 28 Days


    hippie.gif= 31 Days

    dancing-banana-homer-simpson-smiley-emoticon.gif= Target Reached
    flowerz.gif= Target Beaten



    AnnieG

    Arkers /TF

    ArsenalBarnie 3/16

    Barney 6/25

    CathyBird 5/21
    CuppaTea 7/17yoga-smiley-emoticon.gif
    Glenda 8/28yoga-smiley-emoticon.gif
    GreenKaren 7/26yoga-smiley-emoticon.gif
    Honey Bear 7/31yoga-smiley-emoticon.gif

    LoveASale /15

    MaggieM 5/18

    Maman 4/10

    Marahouti 6/20

    PollyAnna 1/16
    Pricey 7/20yoga-smiley-emoticon.gif

    Rosy 6/28

    Season of Mist /31

    Shaggydoo 4/21

    Sukeyboo 4/12

    WannaBeeFree 3/16





    Please let me know if I've made a mistake!

    Everyone Welcome Anytime of the Month!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • pollyanna24
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    I am up to 3/16 for May and 77/183 for the year. The Bank Hol has put me back a little bit, but still hoping to make it!
    Pink Sproglettes born 2008 and 2010
    Mortgages (End 2017) - £180,235.03
    (End 2021) - £131,215.25 DID IT!!!
    (End 2022) - Target £116,213.81
  • Barny1979
    Barny1979 Posts: 7,921 Forumite
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    7/25 AFDs today
  • CuppaTea
    CuppaTea Posts: 1,387 Forumite
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    I guess technically I’m doing the SNC and the Weekend challenge. Please can you put me down for both. Thanks.
    Live for the moment and plan for the future
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