Job advice

Sncjw

Have you tried online dating. That’s how I met my boyfriend. I weeded our a lot of people but this guy is great.

You need to stop lying also or people won’t help you.

You need to be proactive. Focus on one thing at a time. Apply for more jobs. Don’t compare yourself with others

DCFC79

Sncjw wrote: »

You need to be proactive. Focus on one thing at a time. Apply for more jobs. Don’t compare yourself with others

Sam I think this might be a problem, your comparing yourself to your step brother and step sister.

elsien

Sam, as soon as you start talking about your stepbrother and relationships things tend to go rapidly downhill from there.

Fairly sure you won't take any notice but now wouid be a really good time to step away from the keyboard and go offline for the night.

samtheman112

No its not him anymore. I like my stepbrother, I like my stepsister and his girlfriend. The problem is my father. He is the most stupid excuse of a human being ever. Treats me like a little baby, I hate him so much. He has never supported me my entire life. He thinks i am incapable of doing anything.

No comparing him to me at all but I wish my stepfather was my father. He treats me like a adult. I just wish I saw that years ago. My own father has been the problem this whole time. I need help getting rid of my father from my mind and his side of the family.

My stepbrother, his girlfriend, my stepsister, her boyfriend, my stepdad and his family all care about me and support me in what i want to do. I just wish i had seen that before i got banned.

JCS1

You need to let go of the hate, the only person it is hurting is you.

DCFC79

So Sam whats the plan for a job ?

Have you asked at Oswestry Rfc, Oswestry Town or The New Saints if they have any vacancies like glass collecting jn the bar, tidying up after the matches.

samtheman112

JCS1 wrote: »

You need to let go of the hate, the only person it is hurting is you.

I have let go of the hate from the people that do not deserve the hate like my stepbrother and my stepsister. I have let go of the hate of my stepfather who is like a real father to me (supports me, inspires me and motivates me) I have let go of the hate for all of them.

The only person i hate is my father and that friend who bullied me. My real father has said i am not capeable, he says i should never live on my own because i would never be able to afford it, he says i should live with my mum all my life. My father says he wants me to stay on PIP all my life even though when the time comes when im reassessed i don't want to be on it. My father has given me no support.

Im not hurting anymore, he is the one that is hurting and he deserves to be hurt the way he has treated me

samtheman112

DCFC79 wrote: »

So Sam whats the plan for a job ?

Have you asked at Oswestry Rfc, Oswestry Town or The New Saints if they have any vacancies like glass collecting jn the bar, tidying up after the matches.

The plan is to see if Cineworld get back to me and if that doesn't work then try Lidl. When I know and decide what university im going to the plan will be to then research local job opportunities in that area and apply for a job there while im at uni, then help out on open days as a student ambassador because that's what i put on my personal statement as well

BrassicWoman

samtheman112 wrote: »

The plan is to see if Cineworld get back to me and if that doesn't work then try Lidl.

You can apply for more than one thing at once. When I am job hunting I can have about 10 on the go at once. Why not apply for both?

elsien

You know PIP is an in work benefit as well, and claimed by people perfectly capable of holding down a job?