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Will. Is It Worth Doing One?

This is something I have been wondering about for sometime so I figure maybe someone could help give me some advice.

My dad is in his late 70's health is stable. He's widowed and lives in a rental sheltered flat.

I'm an only child. His family live 40 miles away and we visit twice a year. They never come to visit us.

Dad doesn't have a will.

He does not own any property.

He has one life insurance policy which I'm the trustee on which should pay out £7000+ and he has an over 50's plan which should pay out about £3500 I'm also the trustee.

He's thinking of taking a third also to pay out about £3000+

He's making sure he provides for me. Bless him.

He's also almost paid for a funeral plan and has told me what funeral he wants etc.

Since I'm trustee I'm aware the money from his polices should come to me. I wonder would it be better to have a will. He doesn't want to leave anything to anyone else.

He's no debts either.

I know it's will month and I'm just not sure if he should make one if only to state what he wants to do etc. Some of his family can be a bit demanding!!!
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  • Mojisola
    Mojisola Posts: 35,571 Forumite
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    If he dies before you, the fact that he doesn't have a will won't be much of an issue unless family members try to be difficult.

    If he made a will naming you as his beneficiary, it would be very difficult for any of the family to claim anything from the estate.

    He could also plan for who would manage his estate and inherit from him if you died first.

    Has he considered a POA - that's just as important as sorting out what will happen after you die.
  • Robin9
    Robin9 Posts: 12,880 Forumite
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    What happens if you die before him ?
    Never pay on an estimated bill. Always read and understand your bill
  • DigForVictory
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    There's an old saying "where there's a Will, there's relations". I reckon if there are relations, a Will just makes it very plain what the testators intent was.

    Sometimes, that helps. In the middle of grief and the upheaval of 'now what', a nice clear Will helps clarify matters. Plus a well drawn up Will covers a lot of possible situations, and means bases you may not have thought of are covered.
  • Silvertabby
    Silvertabby Posts: 10,316 Forumite
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    edited 10 March 2019 at 3:18PM
    If you suspect that his 'demanding family' could kick off (..but Uncle Fred PROMISED me £X) then it would be best for your father to make a simple Will making you his sole heir (and executor).

    As has been said before, if your father died without making a Will then it's unlikely that anyone but you would have a legitimate claim. But others could drag out the process, creating more stress for you at what will be a very difficult time.
  • lincroft1710
    lincroft1710 Posts: 19,082 Forumite
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    A properly drawn, witnessed, signed and dated will is a no-brainer.
    If you are querying your Council Tax band would you please state whether you are in England, Scotland or Wales
  • Yorkshireman99
    Yorkshireman99 Posts: 5,470 Forumite
    edited 11 March 2019 at 7:47AM
    A properly drawn, witnessed, signed and dated will is a no-brainer.
    Drafted by a solicitor not DIY or a will writer.
  • Savvy_Sue
    Savvy_Sue Posts: 47,470 Forumite
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    AND a power of attorney for both money and health and welfare, so that if he loses the ability to manage his own affairs the OP will be able to make decisions without too much palaver.
    Signature removed for peace of mind
  • tealady
    tealady Posts: 3,851 Forumite
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    I have lost a sibling, one parent still living. Sibling had made will giving instructions how their estate was to be distributed.
    However they left no instructions 're funeral, so the family were left floundering a bit as to what they would have wanted.
    Fortunately family were in full agreement over the funeral, could have led to some unpleasantness if not.
    I have put in my will details for my funeral, to stop people worrying.
    HTH
    Find out who you are and do that on purpose (thanks to Owain Wyn Jones quoting Dolly Parton)
  • lincroft1710
    lincroft1710 Posts: 19,082 Forumite
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    Drafted by a solicitor not DIY or a will writer.

    Exactly, which is why I said properly drawn
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  • System
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    In a word, YES!
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