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Not Wanting Inheritance
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charliefarns62
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It looks likely that one of the beneficiaries of my late mother's estate does not wish to receive her share of the inheritance and has asked it to be shared amongst the other four, including myself. She is unmarried and does not have any children (mentioning this in case it's relevant). I am the sole executor and am doing the probate myself on a relatively straightforward will and had not anticipated this potential spanner in the works. As the will states the five beneficiaries, do I need to involve a solicitor in this, something I've been trying to avoid, or can I just ask her to write me a letter expressing her wishes (some advice on the wording to cover all future eventualities would be appreciated too). Many thanks
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Cant she just accept it, then gift it back to the other 4?“Quis custodiet ipsos custodes?”
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You can do this with a Deed of Variation, info here https://www.gov.uk/alter-a-will-after-a-death2.22kWp Solar PV system installed Oct 2010, Fronius IG20 Inverter, south facing (-5 deg), 30 degree pitch, no shadingEverything will be alright in the end so, if it’s not yet alright, it means it’s not yet the endMFW #4 OPs: 2018 £866.89, 2019 £1322.33, 2020 £1337.07
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charliefarns62 wrote: »It looks likely that one of the beneficiaries of my late mother's estate does not wish to receive her share of the inheritance and has asked it to be shared amongst the other four, including myself. She is unmarried and does not have any children (mentioning this in case it's relevant). I am the sole executor and am doing the probate myself on a relatively straightforward will and had not anticipated this potential spanner in the works. As the will states the five beneficiaries, do I need to involve a solicitor in this, something I've been trying to avoid, or can I just ask her to write me a letter expressing her wishes (some advice on the wording to cover all future eventualities would be appreciated too). Many thanks0
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Be easier if you said why she is refusing it as that often saves redundant suggestions on what needs to be done.0
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Ideally yes, unfortunately there are 'issues and complications' - typical family stuff I'm afraid.0
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I suspect this may be part of the problem, things are rather frosty at the moment so don't want to start quizzing her about her circumstances. Appreciate the answer.0
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The Deed of Variation would seem to be a straightforward way to resolve things, having just read the link. Many thanks0
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OK based on that potential mess you have 3 options.
in all cases...
if you want you can advise the beneficiary making the change what the impact is for them for each choice or tell them they need to get the relevant advise.
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If she wants to specify where the money goes it has to be a DOV
You need to understand the impact of that on the estate and if needed approve it.
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she issues a disclaimer and you distribute according to the will.
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she accepts and makes the relevant gifts
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A DoV would do the job, and completely up to her whether she seeks further advise before signing one.
It's not up to you to "steer" her one way or another, but just present an option available to them.
Someone will no doubt confirm, but I doubt there could be any comeback on executors if they (the beneficiary) did a DoV without legal advice.How's it going, AKA, Nutwatch? - 12 month spends to date = 2.60% of current retirement "pot" (as at end May 2025)0 -
One advantage of the DOV is that as the executor they don't even have to get involved unless it changes the tax position* of the estate.
They can just give them the money and tell them to dish it out according to the DOV.
* unlikely unless one of the beneficiaries is a spouse.0
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