Our BR Diary, from start to finish......

Summer1969

Scarlett.1974 wrote: »

Good grief A2C, no flaming from me. Thank you for such a helpful and informative post, it's really very much appreciated.

I think I see what you're saying - that it might be that my OR thinks I ran up debt that I probably should have known I could not repay? I guess all I can do is be as honest as I can be and hope that he believes me...... I swear, I never borrowed anything that I thought I could not repay

But thanks again for your time, it's very good of you

Hey Scarlett, don't know if you remember me, but you were very kind to me when I was going through BR. I haven't been around for a while but saw this thread. So sorry you have both had to go through this, after such a length of time after BR as well! Glad that OH's interview went ok and I wish you well with yours. xxx I do know what you are going through. I am still waiting. Went BR on 3 July, have had 2 phone calls from OR, first call wanting info off me for loans I paid off for OH and he said we might have to pay them back and second phone call, wanting to investigate my last remortgage and did I take it out knowing we could not pay it back as I left work the same month. It completely freaked me out and I was worried sick. I do know what you are going through. I sent all the info back well over 3 weeks ago and have still heard nothing. I am hoping no news is good news and have now stopped stressing over it. I know we didn't take that remortgage out, knowing I would not be working, and I provided him with all the proof, but if I get a BRO, then I get a BRO. A lot of people do get it sorted out on that first phone call, but unfortunately some of us do get put through the mill a while longer, but who said going BR was the easy option. We will all get there eventually! Hope you are ok. xx

Scarlett.1974

Summer1969 wrote: »

Hey Scarlett, don't know if you remember me, but you were very kind to me when I was going through BR. I haven't been around for a while but saw this thread. So sorry you have both had to go through this, after such a length of time after BR as well! Glad that OH's interview went ok and I wish you well with yours. xxx I do know what you are going through. I am still waiting. Went BR on 3 July, have had 2 phone calls from OR, first call wanting info off me for loans I paid off for OH and he said we might have to pay them back and second phone call, wanting to investigate my last remortgage and did I take it out knowing we could not pay it back as I left work the same month. It completely freaked me out and I was worried sick. I do know what you are going through. I sent all the info back well over 3 weeks ago and have still heard nothing. I am hoping no news is good news and have now stopped stressing over it. I know we didn't take that remortgage out, knowing I would not be working, and I provided him with all the proof, but if I get a BRO, then I get a BRO. A lot of people do get it sorted out on that first phone call, but unfortunately some of us do get put through the mill a while longer, but who said going BR was the easy option. We will all get there eventually! Hope you are ok. xx

Hi summer,

Of course I remember you

God, you're really going through the mill aren't you? I'm really sorry to hear that things have been so difficult for you.

Hopefully that old cliche will prove true for both of us - what doesn't kill you makes your stronger

Take care of yourself,
Scarlett xx

dalip

LADY SCARLETT take a leaf out of lady janes book and wear something slinky and sexy,keep crossing and uncrossing your legs,pop a couple of chicken filles into your bra and wear a low top,drop a couple of things on the floor.


Oh and just hope and pray you don't get the old codger with a bad case of BO, halitosis and a habit of scratching his privates!!!!


Good luck girl. I will be thinking of you this afternoon. Just come back and post as soon as you can to put us all out of our misery.XX

maxmycardagain

dalip wrote: »

LADY SCARLETT take a leaf out of lady janes book and wear something slinky and sexy,keep crossing and uncrossing your legs,pop a couple of chicken filles into your bra and wear a low top,drop a couple of things on the floor.

worked for me...........................:rolleyes:

Scarlett.1974

dalip wrote: »

LADY SCARLETT take a leaf out of lady janes book and wear something slinky and sexy,keep crossing and uncrossing your legs,pop a couple of chicken filles into your bra and wear a low top,drop a couple of things on the floor.


Oh and just hope and pray you don't get the old codger with a bad case of BO, halitosis and a habit of scratching his privates!!!!


Good luck girl. I will be thinking of you this afternoon. Just come back and post as soon as you can to put us all out of our misery.XX

Pmsl I haven't really got anything slinky & sexy! I can do the low cut top though and I don't need the chicken fillets I can definitely do the 'dropping things on the floor' too - I shake like a lunatic when I'm nervous

According to Potless he was "young and good looking and looks like he works out"! Am now imagining a slightly less green version of the incredible hulk!

Lol @ max!

Promise to update as soon as I can D xx

dalip

Scarlett.1974 wrote: »

Pmsl I haven't really got anything slinky & sexy! I can do the low cut top though and I don't need the chicken fillets I can definitely do the 'dropping things on the floor' too - I shake like a lunatic when I'm nervous

According to Potless he was "young and good looking and looks like he works out"! Am now imagining a slightly less green version of the incredible hulk!

Lol @ max!

Promise to update as soon as I can D xx

UM are you sure you don't want me to come with you?:D

Hey we have the smiles back:j

Well it seems you have!!!!!

Eternal_Optimist

Good luck, Scarlett....reading through your tread....you have really been put through the mill. Hope once today is over you finally get some closure on the whole thing and some peace at last.

Scarlett.1974

dalip wrote: »

UM are you sure you don't want me to come with you?:D

Hey we have the smiles back:j

Well it seems you have!!!!!

You need to right click on the one you want to use, then copy and paste it like so

I can't take the credit though - someone else posted that on another thread in the arms

Scarlett.1974

Eternal_Optimist wrote: »

Good luck, Scarlett....reading through your tread....you have really been put through the mill. Hope once today is over you finally get some closure on the whole thing and some peace at last.

Thank you. That's what I'm hoping for too

tigerfeet2006

Will be thinking of you today Scarlett. I am sure you will do fine, you are a strong lady and have gone through such a lot, this should be easy.

(((hugs)))