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Rent Guarantor for Ex Wife
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No history of renting and no (read poor) credit history.0
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Interesting itchyfeet, I've not thought about that. It's not a massive sum I would be holding, just short of £8k, so not much at current interest rates for accessible money. I'll cross that bridge when it's due back to her.0
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Brassic woman I'm not sure what has given you the impression that I am trying to wriggle out of it, I am simply trying to understand the amount of risk I am (about to be) exposed too by understanding what happens in the worst case scenario.
Planning your arguement for court as you try to wriggle out of it, I'd say!
Worst case; she burns the place down, everything needs a refit you're liable for lost rent and insurance excess.
She runs a cannabis farm and damp mould gets in everything and you need to pay for the replacement door the police battered down.
etc etc etc...
So don't do it unless you trust her.2021 GC £1365.71/ £24000 -
It would be perfectly legal for the LL to let your ex live in the property for 20 years building up a debt and then come after you for the whole half million pounds in unpaid rent if they wanted to.I am simply trying to understand the amount of risk I am (about to be) exposed too by understanding what happens in the worst case scenario.
That's what you're signing up for when agreeing to become a guarantor.0 -
If after a few months your ex can't or more likely wont pay the rent, it can take many months to evict her. You are liable not only for lost rental but legal expenses et al."A nation's greatness is measured by how it treats its weakest members." ~ Mahatma Gandhi
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I can't see that you mention any children being involved/affected. Is it just your ex that needs housing? Has she any family/friends she can go and live with when the house sale completes, even if only temporarily?
To be able to move on, you need to cut all ties (which obviously you can't do if kids involved), which in my eyes doesn't include being her rent guarantor. It's a headache and financial burden that could be with you for years.
Why is this still your problem?How's it going, AKA, Nutwatch? - 12 month spends to date = 2.60% of current retirement "pot" (as at end May 2025)0 -
Probably to keep her in agreement with the house sale. There is no trust there at all from the looks of it.
Personally I would have tried my hardest to find a LL who'd accept 6 months money up front so I could walk away at that point. But I guess the problem is it has to be a property the ex wants to move to as well.0 -
1. Ensure the guarantor contract has a restriction on the total amount it will cover and also a time limit, eg the contract lapses after a period.
2. Find a different property with a LL that doesn't require a guarantor or will accept terms such as in 1 above.0
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