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DMP mutual support thread part 13 !!

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  • swansea_lad
    swansea_lad Posts: 132 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary 10 Posts Combo Breaker
    Had a letter today saying HSBC are going to default. Are there any benefits to having less defaults? Say for example if i cleared the HSBC card before it defaulted as the balance has come down quite a bit.
  • Hi, I am looking to start a DMP,
    I want to add a family member as part of my expenditure form because they suffer from MH issues and I  support them financially such as buying their food,  travel cost and money to support them through the month. They do get universal credit which they have fines/debts coming out of, so the money is gone within the same day in which it is paid into their account. They haven't got around to sorting out their PIP due to depression and other reasons. I  usually use about £250 of my salary towards them on a good month,

    I can see a section on the SC DMP  document that has a section called 'Adult Care'
    How much do you pay?
    How often?
    Are you behind in payments?

    Can I add this family member to this section or is this for something else? Or should I just add their cost within my own costs, which will look like I spend a lot of money on food and travel and other things? I need to ensure that I cover their cost because I am worried about their state of mind and I think my support in this way eases some of their pressure.

    Thank you for any help.
  • sourcrates
    sourcrates Posts: 31,528 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts I've been Money Tipped! Name Dropper
    Hi, I am looking to start a DMP,
    I want to add a family member as part of my expenditure form because they suffer from MH issues and I  support them financially such as buying their food,  travel cost and money to support them through the month. They do get universal credit which they have fines/debts coming out of, so the money is gone within the same day in which it is paid into their account. They haven't got around to sorting out their PIP due to depression and other reasons. I  usually use about £250 of my salary towards them on a good month,

    I can see a section on the SC DMP  document that has a section called 'Adult Care'
    How much do you pay?
    How often?
    Are you behind in payments?

    Can I add this family member to this section or is this for something else? Or should I just add their cost within my own costs, which will look like I spend a lot of money on food and travel and other things? I need to ensure that I cover their cost because I am worried about their state of mind and I think my support in this way eases some of their pressure.

    Thank you for any help.
    Budget for it however best suits you.

    A DMP is an informal debt solution, if asked, you can explain the situation should you wish too, but you are under no obligation to do so.

    You only have  to justify expenditure under insolvency or Bankruptcy situations, as those are regulated arrangements.

    Debt management is (currently) not regulated, so you are breaking no rules by doing your own thing.

    If you go down the debt management route, then do so with either one of the free to use debt charities, or go self managed.

    If your expenditure is queried, then you tell them its an essential expense, that you will be budgeting for, be nice obviously, but also be firm, you should not have any problems, but some debt advisors are better trained than others, but as its a legitimate expense, then you are entitled to budget for it.
    I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free wannabe, Credit file and ratings, and Bankruptcy and living with it boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.For free non-judgemental debt advice, contact either Stepchange, National Debtline, or CitizensAdviceBureaux.Link to SOA Calculator- https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php The "provit letter" is here-https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2607247/letter-when-you-know-nothing-about-about-the-debt-aka-prove-it-letter
  • sourcrates
    sourcrates Posts: 31,528 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts I've been Money Tipped! Name Dropper
    Had a letter today saying HSBC are going to default. Are there any benefits to having less defaults? Say for example if i cleared the HSBC card before it defaulted as the balance has come down quite a bit.
    That would be benefiting one creditor over another, I have no problem with that, but your other creditors might do.

    One default less, I suppose can be a positive, and if you can afford the payment, then there`s no reason not to do it.
    I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free wannabe, Credit file and ratings, and Bankruptcy and living with it boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.For free non-judgemental debt advice, contact either Stepchange, National Debtline, or CitizensAdviceBureaux.Link to SOA Calculator- https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php The "provit letter" is here-https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2607247/letter-when-you-know-nothing-about-about-the-debt-aka-prove-it-letter
  • Hi, I am looking to start a DMP,
    I want to add a family member as part of my expenditure form because they suffer from MH issues and I  support them financially such as buying their food,  travel cost and money to support them through the month. They do get universal credit which they have fines/debts coming out of, so the money is gone within the same day in which it is paid into their account. They haven't got around to sorting out their PIP due to depression and other reasons. I  usually use about £250 of my salary towards them on a good month,

    I can see a section on the SC DMP  document that has a section called 'Adult Care'
    How much do you pay?
    How often?
    Are you behind in payments?

    Can I add this family member to this section or is this for something else? Or should I just add their cost within my own costs, which will look like I spend a lot of money on food and travel and other things? I need to ensure that I cover their cost because I am worried about their state of mind and I think my support in this way eases some of their pressure.

    Thank you for any help.
    Budget for it however best suits you.

    A DMP is an informal debt solution, if asked, you can explain the situation should you wish too, but you are under no obligation to do so.

    You only have  to justify expenditure under insolvency or Bankruptcy situations, as those are regulated arrangements.

    Debt management is (currently) not regulated, so you are breaking no rules by doing your own thing.

    If you go down the debt management route, then do so with either one of the free to use debt charities, or go self managed.

    If your expenditure is queried, then you tell them its an essential expense, that you will be budgeting for, be nice obviously, but also be firm, you should not have any problems, but some debt advisors are better trained than others, but as its a legitimate expense, then you are entitled to budget for it.
    Thanks sourcrates. I appreciate your time and advice.
    I am going through Stepchange. If they do query it, then I am more than happy to tell them.

    Have a lovely day.
  • aquafish_2
    aquafish_2 Posts: 20 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    I'm currently in a plan with StepChange but today i've had a final demand notice on my loan from HSBC.  Is this normal?  They're demanding I pay the rest of my loan off by the 15th, really knocked me for six reading this.
  • sourcrates
    sourcrates Posts: 31,528 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts I've been Money Tipped! Name Dropper
    I'm currently in a plan with StepChange but today i've had a final demand notice on my loan from HSBC.  Is this normal?  They're demanding I pay the rest of my loan off by the 15th, really knocked me for six reading this.
    Hi,
    All perfectly normal, there are standard letters a creditor must send you to comply with the consumer credit act, these will not take account of any other arrangement you have in place with stepchange for example.

    Its just another step in the procedure to be defaulted.

    You cannot comply obviously, so the account will go into default soon after that date, don`t be surprised if the debt then gets sold on, you will be informed in writing if this happens, just pass it on to stepchange to deal with.

    No need to do anything else, expect all your accounts to go this way, just another step in the debt  management dance that's all.
    I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free wannabe, Credit file and ratings, and Bankruptcy and living with it boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.For free non-judgemental debt advice, contact either Stepchange, National Debtline, or CitizensAdviceBureaux.Link to SOA Calculator- https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php The "provit letter" is here-https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2607247/letter-when-you-know-nothing-about-about-the-debt-aka-prove-it-letter
  • aquafish_2
    aquafish_2 Posts: 20 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    Thank you for setting my mind at ease, you're a wonderful person.
  • Azza7
    Azza7 Posts: 8 Forumite
    Second Anniversary First Post
    Sorry could you tell me how to start a new thread/ask a question
  • sourcrates
    sourcrates Posts: 31,528 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts I've been Money Tipped! Name Dropper
    Azza7 said:
    Sorry could you tell me how to start a new thread/ask a question
    You just have.
    I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free wannabe, Credit file and ratings, and Bankruptcy and living with it boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.For free non-judgemental debt advice, contact either Stepchange, National Debtline, or CitizensAdviceBureaux.Link to SOA Calculator- https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php The "provit letter" is here-https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2607247/letter-when-you-know-nothing-about-about-the-debt-aka-prove-it-letter
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