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Husband had an emotional affair and don’t know what to do

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  • annandale
    annandale Posts: 1,451 Forumite
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    He's told her he thinks he might be gay.
  • annandale
    annandale Posts: 1,451 Forumite
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    I have to say I've never met or dated a straight man who looked at gay websites or dating apps or told me he might be gay.

    Yes he might be bisexual but he's married to you. He shouldn't be sending pictures of himself to a man on a dating site. He's not free to date.
  • A lot of men think they might be gay and are "curious" (odd thing, but that's fellas for you).

    If he doesn't step out of line again, it's passed....

    :rotfl:

    Ladies, if you think this is true you're more confused than your husband
  • annandale wrote: »
    I have to say I've never met or dated a straight man who looked at gay websites or dating apps

    How do you know?
  • Some people live together and it would be quite easy to check someone's browsing history surely? In the same way some people seem to be sure that straight men do look at gay websites or dating apps, there will be straight men who won't do it. Why on earth would someone look at a gay dating app if they are straight. I am straight, I have zero interest in trawling gay websites or dating apps. Id assume you would do that if you were bisexual or curious.

    That's the whole point, straight men don't look at gay sites
  • NeilCr
    NeilCr Posts: 4,430 Forumite
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    That's the whole point, straight men don't look at gay sites

    Eh?

    I have and I'm straight. Some of my mates have, too.

    I wouldn't contact anyone or ask questions, though.
  • NeilCr wrote: »
    Eh?

    I have and I'm straight. Some of my mates have, too.

    I wouldn't contact anyone or ask questions, though.

    :rotfl:

    You and your mates need to face facts.
  • annandale
    annandale Posts: 1,451 Forumite
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    Not all straight men look at gay websites. Or dating sites. There's a huge difference between doing that and thinking you are gay. Which is the whole point of this thread. He wasn't just looking at sites. He thinks he's gay
  • NeilCr
    NeilCr Posts: 4,430 Forumite
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    :rotfl:

    You and your mates need to face facts.

    You need to be less prescriptive and realise that people don't always act the way you think they do.

    Closed minds and all that

    :D:D
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