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Opening a wrongly addressed letter
50Twuncle
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We keep on getting letters through our door - addressed to our next doors neighbours son - who apparently lives somewhere away from his parents
The letters have OUR house number on them
They all appear to come from a post code in Redruth, Corwall - TR15 1SH
This postcode is (amongst other companies) for a big debt collecting agency
Which concerns me - why is our address on their books ?
I can't believe that he would try the obvious answer with a next door neighbour - although I did have to block him from stealing our fibre internet connection last week (he suddenly appeared in our logs as "***'s phone" !)
I have checked using Experian and nothing has come up....
I could understand a small handwritten letter - but this is printed
So far, my wife has just reposted the letters through their letter box
But is it ILLEGAL to open a letter - with our address on it - just a "different recipient" - to see what is going on ?
What would YOU do ?
The letters have OUR house number on them
They all appear to come from a post code in Redruth, Corwall - TR15 1SH
This postcode is (amongst other companies) for a big debt collecting agency
Which concerns me - why is our address on their books ?
I can't believe that he would try the obvious answer with a next door neighbour - although I did have to block him from stealing our fibre internet connection last week (he suddenly appeared in our logs as "***'s phone" !)
I have checked using Experian and nothing has come up....
I could understand a small handwritten letter - but this is printed
So far, my wife has just reposted the letters through their letter box
But is it ILLEGAL to open a letter - with our address on it - just a "different recipient" - to see what is going on ?
What would YOU do ?
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Just open it. You could say you did not notice it was addressed to someone else.
How did he steal your fibre broadband? Do you not have a password?0 -
Just open it. You could say you did not notice it was addressed to someone else.
How did he steal your fibre broadband? Do you not have a password?
Yes of course I have a password - he must have used cracking software to bypass this
Now I use Wireless Access Rules to limit ANY connections !
He just appeared on my connections log - the idiot was not even capable of using a made up device name - it appeared as "***'s phone"0 -
Return to sender. Not at your address.Please do not quote spam as this enables it to 'live on' once the spam post is removed.

If you quote me, don't forget the capital 'M'
Declutterers of the world - unite! :rotfl::rotfl:0 -
I was going to do that - but wondered whether he was trying to set up an account using our address - so wanted confirmation- before reporting to the policeMoney_maker wrote: »Return to sender. Not at your address.0 -
I was going to do that - but wondered whether he was trying to set up an account using our address - so wanted confirmation- before reporting to the police
Before going to the police have you thought about popping next door and asking them to stop?
It would seem a more sensible next step0 -
I think it very unlikely that anyone would be prosecuted for opening a letter in error. It must happen all the time. I rented previously and was getting lots of letters for a previous tenant. I mailed them all back religiously marking the enveloped 'not at this address'. But some kept coming and one day I genuinely did open one in error. It was from a debt collection agency. So I phoned them and explained. No more letters. It seems they weren't convinced when I simply returned them but speaking to them did the job.
Of course it goes without saying that you would never open someone else's mail on purpose
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Before going to the police have you thought about popping next door and asking them to stop?
It would seem a more sensible next step
The family are "wrong-uns" - Yes, it would be more sensible but I don't do sensible - he stole my connection that I pay for and no doubt would still be doing the same, had I not noticed !!0 -
The family are "wrong-uns" - Yes, it would be more sensible but I don't do sensible - he stole my connection that I pay for and no doubt would still be doing the same, had I not noticed !!
Fair enough but will it not be obvious when the police turn up that you have reported them? I would assume that will make relations between you both very unpleasant.
Stealing broadband is not really crime of the century. I have unlimited internet and have let my neighbours tether onto it when they have had their own internet problems. It does not cost me anything.0
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