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  • Numpty_Monkey
    Numpty_Monkey Posts: 14,196 Forumite
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    Why do you hate Christmas numpty? I loathe the fact that its got so commercial & people have forgotten what its actually about! I lov ebeing able to legitimately buy pressies, see people I love & not be on work! I know though that it can be a very lonely time of year for some. I struggle with winter generally - next year will start taking St Johns wort in August & see how I do! This year I didnt & Sept/Oct were a real struggle. I think its not being able to get to my allotment in the week, then it rains as the weekend and I end up being at home only in the dark...roll on lighter eves!

    Hi isom i do hate all the comercial side of christmas,

    but what i hate more is the falseness, pretence, waste and stupidness that christmas entails,
    The i've got to get this, got to get that all that !!!!!!!!

    Yes I am single(again) but i see the people I love whenever I can and they do the same to me, if i've got a gift to give them i give it, but that is there all year.

    This year is the first time I've gone to work in daylight in 20+ years but i still feel the same,

    Something an old (R.I.P.) friend once said to me and has stuck in my mind

    "mistakes I can put up with, stupidity I can't"

    and to me christmas is stupid - I ran out of milk 23 december went to supermarket, looked at que the milk would have gone off by time i got served.


    guess i should change my name to humug

    take care all
    PROUD TO BE DEALING WITH MY DEBT NERD #869
    Numpty,Not sure why but I'm crying :o . Of all the peeps on this board you're the kindest & most supportive of all & I'm :mad: & :( for you all at the same time . Wish I was there to give you a big :grouphug: & emergency hobnobs
    xx
    DFD 5/1/16
  • lauradora
    lauradora Posts: 1,371 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    but what i hate more is the falseness, pretence, waste and stupidness that christmas entails,
    The i've got to get this, got to get that all that !!!!!!!!

    Yes I am single(again) but i see the people I love whenever I can and they do the same to me, if i've got a gift to give them i give it, but that is there all year.

    This year is the first time I've gone to work in daylight in 20+ years but i still feel the same,

    Something an old (R.I.P.) friend once said to me and has stuck in my mind

    "mistakes I can put up with, stupidity I can't"

    and to me christmas is stupid - I ran out of milk 23 december went to supermarket, looked at que the milk would have gone off by time i got served.


    guess i should change my name to humug

    take care all

    :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
    Scrooge rules!!!! I'm with you NM xxx
    On a mission
  • Numpty_Monkey
    Numpty_Monkey Posts: 14,196 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    humbug or scrooge:confused: :j
    PROUD TO BE DEALING WITH MY DEBT NERD #869
    Numpty,Not sure why but I'm crying :o . Of all the peeps on this board you're the kindest & most supportive of all & I'm :mad: & :( for you all at the same time . Wish I was there to give you a big :grouphug: & emergency hobnobs
    xx
    DFD 5/1/16
  • I also loathe the commercalism of Christmas but do manage to enjoy it regadless - you dont have to buy into that after all! For me Christmas IS special because I get to think carefully about the pressies I buy, dont go nuts with food etc but have a break...will be good to get back into a routine though..
    Nerd no 109 Long haulers supporters DFW #1! Even in the darkest moments, love and hope are always possible.

  • penguin83
    penguin83 Posts: 4,817 Forumite
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    I enjoy it at the minute because the kids are at the right age (4 and 2). However I agree with you ISOM, it will be nice to get back to normal and the kids back to school/nursery - they have plenty of excess energy at the mo x
    Pay Debt by Xmas 16 - 0/12000
    There is something about the outside of a horse that is good for the inside of a man.
  • HELLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Ok what does IYKWIM mean? I've been wracking my brains and still don't know!

    Yes I am feeling better after that splurge and more in control now. Plus (hubby doesn't know yet) but New Year will see both of us doing the housework so that I have more time. I love cross stitch and want to make pictures for next Christmas but don't seem to have the time and as hubby went through a very stressful time I quietly took it all over. He's better now and is willing to help out more so I think I'll take advantage of that.

    Plus have discovered CSI so def need more telly time!!!!!

    Hugs to all....................esp those who need it.

    (((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))

    1 step xx
    If you wait for perfect conditions, nothing would ever get done! :T
    I'm not short - I'm condensed awesome! :p
  • penguin83
    penguin83 Posts: 4,817 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Hi 1 step - It stands for "If you know what I mean!" x x
    Pay Debt by Xmas 16 - 0/12000
    There is something about the outside of a horse that is good for the inside of a man.
  • Aha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    So what does IYSWIM, oh good grief - "if you see what I mean"...doh!!!!!!!!!!!

    As you can tell brain has gone to sleep today! LOL!
    If you wait for perfect conditions, nothing would ever get done! :T
    I'm not short - I'm condensed awesome! :p
  • penguin83
    penguin83 Posts: 4,817 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Dont worry for ages I thought LOL was lots of love - I just thought everyone was very friendly here! x x
    Pay Debt by Xmas 16 - 0/12000
    There is something about the outside of a horse that is good for the inside of a man.
  • I did too!........................ahem..............................
    If you wait for perfect conditions, nothing would ever get done! :T
    I'm not short - I'm condensed awesome! :p
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