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Missy’s debtfree seperation! Hugs & support needed
missymoo81
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Hi,
I’ve been on the boards a while, and always got to much love and support. Of which I am in dire need of it now. I am in the process of a very messy separation with OH. Who is unwilling to accept it. I am in the process of moving out of the marital home into a rented house with DD May(4)and DS Roo(6) And also in the process of racking up huge credit card bills to pay for every day life until the benefit system kicks in and my solicitor can get Ex OH to pay anything.
Emotionally I’m not in the best place, but need to stay sane for the littlies. Will be moving out in a week or so and need to get all of my debts and finances in check. Just wanted some friends a long the way to keep me in the right side of crazy.
Much love
Missy x
I’ve been on the boards a while, and always got to much love and support. Of which I am in dire need of it now. I am in the process of a very messy separation with OH. Who is unwilling to accept it. I am in the process of moving out of the marital home into a rented house with DD May(4)and DS Roo(6) And also in the process of racking up huge credit card bills to pay for every day life until the benefit system kicks in and my solicitor can get Ex OH to pay anything.
Emotionally I’m not in the best place, but need to stay sane for the littlies. Will be moving out in a week or so and need to get all of my debts and finances in check. Just wanted some friends a long the way to keep me in the right side of crazy.
Much love
Missy x
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Oh missy wondered why you had been so quiet . Sorry to hear of this news , we are all here to support you .This is a system account and does not represent a real person. To contact the Forum Team email forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com0
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You will get lots of support here.
Take care of you.I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** in ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger.
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan. 19months left.0 -
Wondered where you'd gone Missy and this explains it
So sorry to hear your news.
Stay strong you know I'm only a PM away if you need anything
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xx“Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”0 -
Hi, so sorry you're going through such a bad time.
Just keep in mind, these feelings aren't forever and once you're settled things will seem much better.
It's not going to be easy by any means, but on your bad days keep checking in and writing down what you're feeling-we are all here to help and support each other.
Your head will be in a completely different head place this time next year. (I know that seems a heck of a long time away and may be far from helpful right now, but mean this isn't going to be a forever feeling, things will calm down eventually)
Hugs to you. Stay strong x0 -
I'm normally more of a lurker, but just wanted to pop in and wish you good luck hun x19/12/14: Spent 10 years of savings!!
:heart2: ..... to buy my first home. :heart2:
11K OP 31.03.19
Current goal: €151,000 deposit Ireland and counting, to buy Spring 2022 we hope!0 -
Sorry your going through this OP.No Spend November 2/15 and SPC 1340
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Hi Missy,
Sorry you're going through a tough situation. I'm a single mum and have been for 18 months now. I know it sounds a cliche but take one day at a time. Debtnomore is right that as time goes on, you will be in a different place and look back and realise how far you have come.
Thinking of you...paydbx2026 #19 £2324/£6000 . Mortgage start £148k June 23 - now £133k.
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Hi Missy, thought of you and Roo when I saw the blood oranges in the supermarket a few weeks ago.
Good luck with everything, sounds like its a getting over difficult ground as lightly as possible situation for a few months at least.My mortgage free diary: +++ Divide by Cucumber Error. Please reinstall universe and reboot+++
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Wow thank you all so much for your kind wishes. I know I!!!8217;ll be ok, just so stressful right now, and because it was my decision I feel like the wort most hated person in the world.0
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You must of have good reason to make your decision and as long as you feel you've made the right one, all will come good in the end.
You can't stay together if you aren't happy-life is far too short to be somewhere you don't want to be forever.
Many hugs to you0
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