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Missy’s debtfree seperation! Hugs & support needed

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  • missymoo81
    missymoo81 Posts: 8,034 Forumite
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    edited 18 April 2018 at 8:16PM
    Thanks hairy, nice to see you and redo thanks for that, really need to go to Aldi. Having a bit of a wobble today, Ive been so strong through all of this, I feel like its all getting a bit much today. Im embarking on a career change to a personal trainer. So I need to go on lots of courses, so I need to get them booked and paid for. Im trying to sort out childcare etc, divorce, bills, finances, building up a social network for said career change. I need to buy all new summer uniform. Ive still got health issues, Im still waiting to see a respiratory nurse. Ive got to wait for yet more blood tests as on top of the aneamia and prediabetes, they think Im cealiac, and the last blood tests showed up something up with my liver?! Feel like Im flailing about a bit!!!!! I need a nice cup of tea and a good cry I think. Im so sorry to be negative! Im just feeling a bit bleugh today.
  • parsniphead
    parsniphead Posts: 2,897 Forumite
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    I've just found your diary missy. Sorry to read your news. Sending you hugs.

    Xxx
    1 debt v's 100 days chapter 34: T3sco bank CC £250/£525.24 47.59%

    [STRIKE]MBNA - [/STRIKE]GONE, [STRIKE]CAP ONE[/STRIKE] GONE, [STRIKE]YORKS BANK [/STRIKE]GONE, [STRIKE]VANQUIS[/STRIKE] GONE [STRIKE] TESCO - [/STRIKE], GONE
    TSB CARD, TSB LOAN, LLOYDS. FIVE DOWN, THREE TO GO.
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,701 Ambassador
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    Keep plodding.
    You can do this :)
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

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    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

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  • missymoo81
    missymoo81 Posts: 8,034 Forumite
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    Ah hi parsniphead, thank you. And thanks beanielou. I know Ill be all
    Good, just having a moment.
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,701 Ambassador
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    I have lots of moments, or days :eek: :rotfl:
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • missymoo81
    missymoo81 Posts: 8,034 Forumite
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    Lol beanielou. Still havent made that tea, should do really....
  • You're coping with lots of changes and huge challenges all at once, which is exciting but also tiring and frightening. You're bound to have the odd wobble.

    Treat yourself to a good book, film, or bath to relax yourself. Or can you ring a friend or relative to chat? I hope you feel better soon.
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = £58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T 🎉
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = £50/£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = £10/£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = £0/£500. SEF = £1,400/£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = £350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = £300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = £0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
  • missymoo81
    missymoo81 Posts: 8,034 Forumite
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    Morning, feel better this morning. Managed to order uniform last night, although not sure ill be in for delivery !!!55357;!!!56900;. Drinking tea and chilling at the moment.
  • missymoo81
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    Just sitting in the garden reading and drinking tea. Quietly contemplating life, which is quite nice. Ive alrwady nipped to tesco express for milk and strawberries. Feeling vaguely more organised as managed to get summer clothes and school uniforms for smalls. Not sure what to do today. Have a dreaded childrens party at 3. Its sunny but a bit chilly here at present. Might take the small ones to the cinema....
  • Sometimes the moments of greatest clarity come when drinking tea in the garden. Hope you have a good day.
    paydbx2025 #26 £890/£5000 . Mortgage start £148k June 23 - now £138k.
    2025 savings challenge £0/£2000
    EF £140. Savings 2 £30.00. 17
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