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MMD: Should Trinny share her bingo winnings with Susannah?

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  • There's a common theme appearing - maybe it's cultural...

    Trinny should offer Susannah half - after all without Susannah she wouldn't have anything.

    If I were Susannah, I wouldn't accept knowing how much the money would mean to her, and would negotiate down to a token (non-cash) amount, say a couple of drinks or a cheap meal as I wouldn't want Trinny to feel indebted.

    -Waistcoat
  • One of the unwritten rules in bingo is that winnings are shared equally between all parties playing together, be it 2 people or 6 people (my other half works for Mecca Bingo)... so it should be half, no matter what the financial situation of each person.
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  • GileZ
    GileZ Posts: 9 Forumite
    This is quite an easy one.
    Legally, the cards were a gift, and as such she has no Legal obligations.

    Morally, she should probabyl offer her something, and usually this would be in the region of 50 50. However, if Susannah is a real friend then she will refuse half of the money. Taking her out for a meal and/or a few drinks sounds like an excellent idea, and one that should keep everyone happy. (Thanks to suzithefloozy for that one).

    And remember, no amount of money is worth ruining a friendship for. :beer:
  • simonp
    simonp Posts: 109 Forumite
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    50/50



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  • Definately Share it 50/50! her mate will probably not even accept half as she probably knows she's struggling but she has to at least offer and accept the fact if her mate takes half.
  • There is no question, of course Trinny should share her winnings with Susannah. Half would be the right thing to do! Afterall, without her friend Trinny would not have won.
  • JayD
    JayD Posts: 746 Forumite
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    I agree with the vast majority here - Trinny should split her winnings right down the middle - 50/50 - and thank Susannah most sincerely for generously buying her the tickets in the first place.
  • Give Susannah half. She's Trinny's best friend and benefactor. Next time, the boot could be on the other foot.
  • firespire
    firespire Posts: 795 Forumite
    Trinny is struggling to make ends meet and has debts, she should not be gambling at bingo, she should share a cheaper activity or night in with Susannah. If she has been pressurised by Susannah to go to the bingo by Susannah saying she will treat here to a few of the bingo cards, she should drop Susannah as a friend.
  • bagby
    bagby Posts: 828 Forumite
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    definitely half each. Im sure that anyone who plays bingo would have an agreement before playing whether they were sharing or not. If someone had treat me then I would have said 50/50 at the start.
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