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Help please! Panicing
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Sarahbeans wrote: »There was no "plan" at all. I would never defraud anyone, it disgusts me when people do that. We genuinely broke up and want to try again for our children's sake. Does anyone know if an introductory tenant can move someone in? I want to do things properly
I doubt there's a definitive answer to that. Each LA will treat each case on its own merits. You'll have to ask your landlord.Unless I say otherwise 'you' means the general you not you specifically.0 -
People here on the forum do not know the terms on which your Housing Executive offered you their property, nor the conditions of the tenancy you agreed to and signed.
You are wise to want to everything correctly and "by the book", but to do this you really must make contact with your Housing Executive to:
1) Confirm that you live alone at the property with your child. You could provide evidence of your partner's tenancy agreement for his own property to support this fact.
2) Understand fully the conditions of your tenancy and what that means in terms of your partner moving in with you and your rights to the home should this happen.0 -
Sarahbeans wrote: »There was no "plan" at all. I would never defraud anyone, it disgusts me when people do that. We genuinely broke up and want to try again for our children's sake. Does anyone know if an introductory tenant can move someone in? I want to do things properly
Move in with him then?
Or find a place for the two of you.
Many people do exactly what you appear to be doing, and they will be wise to it, whether you’re ‘actually’ doing it or not.0 -
Is he still living where you were all together before? If so, what's wrong moving back there with him? Surely you can see why they would want to investigate. If are so against fraud and it was someone else, wouldn't you agree that it was the right thing to do?0
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Is he still living where you were all together before? If so, what's wrong moving back there with him? Surely you can see why they would to investigate. If are so against fraud and it was somewhere else, wouldn't you agree that it was the right thing to do?
On the other hand we don't know why the OP moved out. This could be an abusive relationship that she's being sucked back into. Or they're trying to scam the system. Or anything in between.
That's why this board is for giving factual advice about entitlement only.Unless I say otherwise 'you' means the general you not you specifically.0 -
On the other hand we don't know why the OP moved out. This could be an abusive relationship that she's being sucked back into. Or they're trying to scam the system. Or anything in between.
That's why this board is for giving factual advice about entitlement only.
If she has been in an abusive relationship and has been given the property to get away from that, the LAST thing thats going to happen is him being allowed to move in! And thats a fact...0 -
What difference does it make? Why is OP panicking if indeed she is intending to get back with her partner being pregnant and he lives in his own house. Doesn't sound like she would be homeless. The posts do come across that OP is desperate to keep the place AND get her partner to move in.On the other hand we don't know why the OP moved out. This could be an abusive relationship that she's being sucked back into. Or they're trying to scam the system. Or anything in between.0 -
What difference does it make? Why is OP panicking if indeed she is intending to get back with her partner being pregnant and he lives in his own house. Doesn't sound like she would be homeless. The posts do come across that OP is desperate to keep the place AND get her partner to move in.
The op is panicking about being kicked out of her house. She's only said she's dating her ex and wants to give it a go. He hasn't even stayed over. There's a lot of difference between that and concrete plans to live together.
We don't know why they split up, and the only reason given for dating is the kids.
Without knowing any background I think it's irresponsible of posters to just say 'move back in'. That's why this forum is purely about entitlement.Unless I say otherwise 'you' means the general you not you specifically.0 -
Just go to your local CAB office!0
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The op is panicking about being kicked out of her house. She's only said she's dating her ex and wants to give it a go. He hasn't even stayed over. There's a lot of difference between that and concrete plans to live together.
We don't know why they split up, and the only reason given for dating is the kids.
Without knowing any background I think it's irresponsible of posters to just say 'move back in'. That's why this forum is purely about entitlement.
The OP literally states she wants him to move back in! How is it unreasonable to say move back in with the bloke?
She is not entitled to have her fella living with her in a place where only she is on the tenancy and it was granted to house her and her son.0
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