He said he was thinking about me. Does he like me?

Hi all,

I have started to get a crush on a work colleague but he doesn't know it. I'm not sure how he feels either.

He's gone on a trip with friends and sent me a random message out the blue yesterday saying that he keeps seeing my favorite animal and they make him think of me.

What could this mean? Could he have a crush on me too? The guy tends to be a bit of a flirt with everyone, but would you say that to a girl you just saw as a friend?
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  • chesky
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    What's the animal?
  • 74jax
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  • Pollycat
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    justkawaii wrote: »
    Hi all,

    I have started to get a crush on a work colleague but he doesn't know it. I'm not sure how he feels either.

    He's gone on a trip with friends and sent me a random message out the blue yesterday saying that he keeps seeing my favorite animal and they make him think of me.

    What could this mean? Could he have a crush on me too? The guy tends to be a bit of a flirt with everyone, but would you say that to a girl you just saw as a friend?
    Well, I wouldn't but as we know nothing about your work colleague (potentially a recipe for career disaster for both of you but I guess that's a different thread) it's impossible to say what he'd say to anyone.
  • pollypenny
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  • pogofish
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    Sounds like he's fishing to see if you are thinking of him?
  • chesky wrote: »
    What's the animal?
    This is a very important detail.
    If he said "I saw a warthog and it made me think of you", he probably doesn't fancy you.
  • Oakdene
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    chesky wrote: »
    What's the animal?

    Surely it doesn't matter what the animal is as he keeps seeing OP's favorite animal... FWIW my money is on a Robin.
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  • Malthusian
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    Just ask him out.
  • ognum
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    Firstly, if he is a work colleague how does he know your favourite animal?

    Next do you want a relationship with the office flirt?

    What have you relplied?
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