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“Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life.”

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  • Youngest one struggling still not quite as bad number wise, she hasn't really moved out of bed since Christmas day though. Started some tamiflu alongside the antibiotics so should it be 'viral' there's something there to kick that too.

    Sleep is still very minimal, only when there's someone else to watch

    Other two being very understanding. It does make me feel guilty though.

    I haven't really posted because not much MSE wise to say and feeling quite low so didn't want to bring the negativity here x
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • Good thing is you are all still at home together ;)
    Thanks for posting luv and remember, always here if you need to talk (((((HUGS))))) :A
    BUGGRITMILLENIUMHANDANDSHRIMP I TOLD EM! - Foul Ole Ron
    It is important that we know where we come from, because if you do not know where you come from, then you do not know where you are, and if you don't know where you are, then you don't know where you are going. If you don't know where you're going, you're probably going wrong.
    R.I.P. T.P.
  • Hope the new meds work and she is feeling better very soon.
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  • Good thing is you are all still at home together ;)
    Thanks for posting luv and remember, always here if you need to talk (((((HUGS))))) :A

    Thank you for earlier x
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • You're welcome, as always :A
    BUGGRITMILLENIUMHANDANDSHRIMP I TOLD EM! - Foul Ole Ron
    It is important that we know where we come from, because if you do not know where you come from, then you do not know where you are, and if you don't know where you are, then you don't know where you are going. If you don't know where you're going, you're probably going wrong.
    R.I.P. T.P.
  • Hope she feels better soon. We're always here if you need a chat. Xx
    Have adventures. laugh a lot and always be kind.
  • Hugs to all of you.xx
  • Thank you :)

    We have some gift vouchers from Xmas - I think these will be used on more practical items than on 'toys' - Bedding/bedroom items etc they want and need. I hope this is okay with who sent them. We received some lovely gifts thank you for all the lovely cards too. We never usually receive cards or gifts other than to/from each other and the odd ones from school. It made a lovely change and all the smalls loved them.

    Despite youngest being so poorly (we just except that this is a part of normal day to day) it's honestly been the best Xmas I can remember. Not only good but the happiness shown by smalls was amazing.

    I really want to work out budgets and things and try to squeeze in a weekend at the caravan around my birthday. Hopefully if youngest is well enough x
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • Thank you :)

    We have some gift vouchers from Xmas - I think these will be used on more practical items than on 'toys' - Bedding/bedroom items etc they want and need. I hope this is okay with who sent them. We received some lovely gifts thank you for all the lovely cards too. We never usually receive cards or gifts other than to/from each other and the odd ones from school. It made a lovely change and all the smalls loved them.

    Despite youngest being so poorly (we just except that this is a part of normal day to day) it's honestly been the best Xmas I can remember. Not only good but the happiness shown by smalls was amazing.

    I really want to work out budgets and things and try to squeeze in a weekend at the caravan around my birthday. Hopefully if youngest is well enough x

    The bit in bold is my favourite bit :D

    I think that if the gift vouchers are used for something that you and the wee ones want and will make you happy, then whoever sent them would be very, very happy with that.

    Thinking and being positive, LOVE it :D (((((HUGS))))) :A
    BUGGRITMILLENIUMHANDANDSHRIMP I TOLD EM! - Foul Ole Ron
    It is important that we know where we come from, because if you do not know where you come from, then you do not know where you are, and if you don't know where you are, then you don't know where you are going. If you don't know where you're going, you're probably going wrong.
    R.I.P. T.P.
  • Cherryfudge
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    Good to hear from you again, and that youngest is at home, but sorry to hear she's unwell and you feel down. Concerns for her and tiredness will undoubtedly take a toll but it's just for a while.

    I wonder if the DLA (I think that's the one isn't it?) might allow you to pay a sitter for a few hours so you can get your head down?
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