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“Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life.”

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  • So DS and DD said Panto was okay but not amazing. They said some of the children kept getting up and generally messing and made it hard to concentrate on what was happening. This has made DS be in a right mood this evening. The joys.

    Youngest had a fab Xmas party at school. Even after an incident this morning so I had to leave her in tears! Boo. I really hope the school get a new principal found quickly and order is restored. Or I'm really considering transferring them elsewhere.

    Not much in other news.
    Popped into Lidl spent £3.48.. (milk, juice, eggs, sweets :o)
    Money just seems to be slipping out at a scary rate!

    No more snow, although the snow we had is just all ice now! The main road isn't too bad though.

    Tomorrow we have youngest's Nativity. £2 needed for a ticket. I'm sure I have something else on tomorrow but I can't remember :o
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • If you lived in a mansion Wannabee you could probably afford to pay a painter to do all of your painting :rotfl:.

    Oh I can dream :p :rotfl:
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • December goals

    Money
    £135 to Council Tax - £0/£135
    £60 Rent - £15/£60
    £80 Groceries - £9/£80

    Extra income (Waiting for)
    Populuslive £50 Cheque
    Panelbase £20 Bank

    Plans
    [STRIKE]1st - Non Uniform £2[/STRIKE] Done £3
    [STRIKE]7th - Youngest dress as a character for calendar pictures [/STRIKE] - She refuses to dress up.
    [STRIKE]8th - Smalls Xmas dinner £5[/STRIKE] Paid
    [STRIKE]11th - School Panto trip £42 Paid[/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]11th - Youngest Xmas party - Need cocktail sausages and cake[/STRIKE]
    12th - Youngest Nativity 10.30am
    13th - Xmas Fayre & Santa Express Train
    13th - School Santa £18
    14th - Christmas roadshow
    14th - Youngest School Santa £9
    15th - Xmas jumper day £3
    18th - DS Xmas Production
    19th - DD Xmas Production
    22nd - Last day of term

    [STRIKE]Youngest appointments x 8[/STRIKE] Done :D Need to sort the ones for next week now
    [STRIKE]Make and keep my own appointments :o[/STRIKE] Will focus more on this after Xmas.
    Decorate Living room - Wallpaper to go up
    Decorate Kitchen - Wallpaper to go up
    Decorate Hallway - Wallpaper to go up
    [STRIKE]Decorate Stairs[/STRIKE] - Done :D
    Decorate Landing - Doors need finishing
    [STRIKE]School Xmas cards[/STRIKE] Done and sent :D
    Finish Xmas shopping
    [STRIKE]Xmas tree[/STRIKE] - Coming Wednesday
    [STRIKE]Xmas cards[/STRIKE] - Posted

    List of things I need to sort in December
    DD's clothes - just tights
    Youngest - leggings and socks
    [STRIKE]Xmas tree[/STRIKE] - £25
    Xmas gifts
    [STRIKE]Xmas cards[/STRIKE] - More expensive than it should have been
    Buy a Kettle
    Buy Mugs
    Buy 2 photo frames
    Buy storage boxes for toy cupboard
    £10 for DS to buy his sisters a gift.
    £10 for DD to buy DS and DD a gift
    £10 for Youngest to buy DS and DD a gift.

    Unbudgeted spends
    £35 DIY store
    £2.50 Coffee
    £1.50 Sweets
    £33 Xmas gifts
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • Activity a day

    1st - Paint Xmas pictures - Done :D Amazing fun
    2nd - Make Xmas decorations - Glitter everywhere! Done :D
    3rd - Xmas movie & popcorn - Done :D
    [STRIKE]4th - Make Xmas cards[/STRIKE] Swapped to 5th all done and drying :D
    [STRIKE]5th - Read Xmas stories (busy with appointments needed something quick) [/STRIKE] Did on the 4th :o
    6th - Finish Xmas cards/envelopes - Done
    7th - Winter walk & post cards - Done :D

    8th - [STRIKE]Make photo frames for gifts[/STRIKE] - Done, waiting for tree to be done to get an Xmas pic
    9th - [STRIKE]Donate Xmas treats to food bank & Ice skating[/STRIKE] No ice skating, have taken treat things to food bank
    [STRIKE]10th - Decorate gingerbread house [/STRIKE] -
    Will make it smaller next year and do one each.
    [STRIKE]11th - Make tree decorations[/STRIKE] - Done hanging to dry :D
    12th - Visit nursing home with cards and things
    13th - Make Xmas cookies
    14th - Make a snowman (Craft items not snow hopefully :rotfl:)

    15th - Christmas tree day :D
    16th - Wrap gifts smalls got for each other
    17th - Do Christmas photos and finish making gifts with them
    18th - Make sweet cones, snowman soup and reindeer food (Xmas themed)
    19th - Make a snowglobe
    20th - Donate list items to Foodbank
    21st - Read an Xmas story with puppets

    22nd - Make fudge/cakes and treats for gifts
    23rd - Deliver gifts and cards and things to everyone
    24th - Make Santa plate and food, hang stockings, Xmas movie with snowman soup and sweet things.
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • I agree with the comments about teachers' presents. The sentiment and thought is much appreciated but never expected. The most precious gift I have received as a teacher was a still life picture drawn by a child in my class and given to me at the end of term. Twenty years on I still have that picture and often wonder how that child is getting on now.
    paydbx2025 #26 £890/£5000 . Mortgage start £148k June 23 - now £138k.
    2025 savings challenge £0/£2000
    EF £140. Savings 2 £30.00. 17
  • Morning :D

    Have a lovely day
    (((((HUGS)))))
    :A
    BUGGRITMILLENIUMHANDANDSHRIMP I TOLD EM! - Foul Ole Ron
    It is important that we know where we come from, because if you do not know where you come from, then you do not know where you are, and if you don't know where you are, then you don't know where you are going. If you don't know where you're going, you're probably going wrong.
    R.I.P. T.P.
  • Morning Wannabe,

    Hope you're ok? Have a lovely day and keep warm xx
  • Morning,

    Busy morning here. Smalls to school and youngest nativity. Then took youngest straight onto an appointment where we didn't get the news we wants. So a rubbish day so far really.

    Anyway to take our minds of that we are sat enjoying hot drinks, well hers is warm and she has a gingerbread.

    So definitely not a NSD. Although least of my worries.

    Hope everyone has a good day x
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • Cherryfudge
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    Oh no to the rubbish day. :( Come and chat to us over here if needed: support and maybe advice seem to spill over on this board.

    Meanwhile hot drinks and gingerbread are the order of the day... yummy!
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  • Sorry the news wasn't the one you expected :(

    Definitely a hot drink and gingerbread kind of day xx
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