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  • System
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    Great to see you back.
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  • earthgirl
    earthgirl Posts: 3,762 Forumite
    Mortgage-free Glee!
    Glad you had a good holiday, I'm also spending a bit more on memories at the moment, probably only have ten more years of holidays left with ds1 at most so need to make them count!

    Hoping you'll keep me on track with Christmas spending too :)
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  • WannabeFree
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    Thank you :D

    EG Xmas is being really small this year :o Sticking to the something they want, something they need, something to wear and something to read ;)

    Our food budget seems to have crept up to around £50 a week :eek: and I don't know where I can cut it back :( We don't receive any gifted food now I've cut certain people out and we have run down the stores to the point I have no choice but to shop weekly now. We are happier though ;) So that's what counts.

    So back to the point Xmas will be small and quiet. Spent together making things/reading/watching a movie etc. Our activity a day is nearly all free things using crafty stuff they already have. I bought the girls 'want' item on Amazon using gift vouchers and I must try to get back on the surveys to get DS something. Books will probably be from the salvation army along with something to wear items.

    We are having Xmas dinner just us and will just be a normal roast dinner and treats homemade things. Need to put the lists together properly.

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  • joeyjimbles
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    Hi, glad you hear you sounding so positive and in control.
    Channel 5 show lots of christmas movies and there's channel 74 on freeview which is an entirely christmas channel. Cheap (and probably naff) sources of festive background spirit whenever it is required.
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  • How old are the smalls now wannabe? Xx
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  • WannabeFree
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    Oh will look Joey, I love the Christmas movies on C5 so I will love the free channel no doubt thank you.

    PLMBL DS is 9 and DD's 7 & 4

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  • beanielou
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    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Happiness is priceless :)

    Glad you had a good holiday :)
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  • UncannyScot
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    Glad you and the wee yins had a great holiday.
    Great to have you back posting again missus
    Really, really missed you on here
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  • Hi Wannabe :D


    You sound more positive and happy which is lovely to read. It's so nice to see your updates (although I'm one to talk - I read a lot but don't post that much as I make so many typos on my phone! :mad:).


    I remember being amazed at how mamy wonderful crafty activities you fitted in with your DC in the run-up to last Christmas. They clearly have an amazing time. I have no idea how you fit it all in, but you do.



    Here's to a Very Merry Christmases in tge Wannabe household! :xmassign::xmastree::rudolf::santa2:
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  • earthgirl
    earthgirl Posts: 3,762 Forumite
    Mortgage-free Glee!
    Xmas sounds great! We are also going for small / free gifts as we are going out for lunch. I sometimes have to cook for about 25 and it's too much - I struggle mentally before and after, so I'm pleased about going out.

    I will have to look back - did you write out your Christmas activities on here last year? Hope it's not been deleted. I feel the need for lots of free Christmas spirit!!
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