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“Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life.”

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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,806 Ambassador
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    You are very quiet.
    Hope all is ok.
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  • jwil
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    Hope you are all ok x
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  • Cherryfudge
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    Missing you. :) Hope you and the kiddliwinks are okay xx
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  • UncannyScot
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    Morning :D
    Have a great day
    Happy Birthday to the wee-est one today... big hugs from me and big licks from the wee furry yin :D
    BUGGRITMILLENIUMHANDANDSHRIMP I TOLD EM! - Foul Ole Ron
    It is important that we know where we come from, because if you do not know where you come from, then you do not know where you are, and if you don't know where you are, then you don't know where you are going. If you don't know where you're going, you're probably going wrong.
    R.I.P. T.P.
  • WannabeFree
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    Thank you :) Sorry for the quietness Youngest has been quite poorly and feeling sorry for herself.

    We are still being MSE, one supermarket shop at £33 but included some birthday things for youngest. Not sure how much exactly and haven't had time to sort it :o All the bills have been kept on top of though and we've ate from home etc. Only real extra cost has been taxi journeys to see medical people for youngest, along with medicine and ice lollies from the shop :o

    Hope everyone is well and will hopefully be back posting soon. She has been seen again this morning and seems to have turned a corner and back on the up.

    It's just hard to see sometimes and hiding from the world feels good.

    x
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • UncannyScot
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    Glad to hear the wee barra is picking up.

    Really hoping she has a lovely birthday.

    (((((HUGS)))))
    BUGGRITMILLENIUMHANDANDSHRIMP I TOLD EM! - Foul Ole Ron
    It is important that we know where we come from, because if you do not know where you come from, then you do not know where you are, and if you don't know where you are, then you don't know where you are going. If you don't know where you're going, you're probably going wrong.
    R.I.P. T.P.
  • WannabeFree
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    I also find this time of year, her birthday especially difficult.

    I guess sometimes its hard when you consider the daily struggles she faces, how 'different' she is to her friends and things.

    I think when you're pregnant you just sort of expect everything to be okay and get a bouncing happy baby at delivery. Which we did have!

    Then for things to change after only 3 weeks and from then everything is a constant worry. Trying to look back and remember milestones but every one of them 'in hospital' or worrying.

    I wouldn't change youngest for anything. She is amazing. However I do sit and think why? Why should she struggle so much to do things others find so simple. Why should every invite out etc be overshadowed with the worry of her picking yet another infection up.
    I'm sorry if this offends anyone.
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • sashybo
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    W, what you're feeling sounds pretty natural to me & I don't think there is anything in your post that could possibly offend anyone.

    Big hugs to you all.
    Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts. Car loan 1 £11,174, Car loan 2 £5,532, CC 0% BT £780. Debt Free Diary to try & keep spending in check.
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,806 Ambassador
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    Not offended in the slightest.
    Full of admiration of how you both cope.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
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