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“Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life.”

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  • Chrystal
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    Wannabe are you not entitled to claim PIP?

    You are obviously incapacited by your illness' it might be worth thinking about. XX
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  • WannabeFree
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    Charliestribe I hope I'm sorted for the birthdays now. At least all 3 of mine are out of the way together :rotfl:

    Chrystal I'm hoping it isn't going to stay like this. I'll see what happens over the next 2 months or so.

    x
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  • WannabeFree
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    Morning

    Friday again!

    No plans for today, smalls are staying away still. Although youngest isn't feeling the best so might have to come and join me on the poorly sofa for cuddles ;)

    Hope you all have a lovely day x
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  • Hope you get cuddles then WF although it's a shame that it's because youngest is poorly too.
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    Hope the poorly sofa time is healing for both of you! xx
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  • WannabeFree
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    Youngest seems okay to me :o Think she wanted cuddles ;) She's back away to bake cakes and things soon.

    Have sent away proof of income and outgoings to council tax team. Fingers crossed now.
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  • WannabeFree
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    Okay I can't sleep. I'm so itchy! anyway..

    Bills to be paid in February

    [STRIKE]Rent £226.14[/STRIKE] Paid
    Rent £226.14
    Council Tax £135
    Virgin £70 (Includes quite a few calls this month! £21 nearly :o)
    Electric [STRIKE]£80[/STRIKE] £60
    Gas [STRIKE]£60[/STRIKE] £45
    Bill 1 [STRIKE]£105[/STRIKE] Paid
    Bill 2 [STRIKE]£130[/STRIKE] £105
    Bill 3 £25
    Bill 4 [STRIKE]£100[/STRIKE] £75
    Bill 5 [STRIKE]£40[/STRIKE] £30
    Bill 6 £40
    Bill 7 £135 (3rd March)

    Expensive month then.
    Also need the smalls birthday gifts. I still have no idea what to get them :o DS probably something game related, DD something crafty, Youngest something noisy and annoying. £80ish in total I think.

    Ahh gotta love Fridays. :cool: If only I could have spent on anti itching and anti sickness instead :rotfl:

    Might get a coffee in a paper cup at an appointment later though :o
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  • WannabeFree
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    February Goals

    Debt
    £100 Council Tax - £0/£100
    £60 Rent - £30/£60

    Money
    Grocery £0/£100

    To do list
    7th - My birthday Eat cake with the kids
    17th - DD birthday & party

    2nd (March) - DS birthday
    4th (March) - DS party
    8th (March) - Youngest birthday

    Will add school things in.

    Lots of appointments. At least 4 a week for me and littlest ones.

    Spends planned
    Buy the Kettle!
    Birthday party (paid for)
    Make/Buy sweet cones Ordered, so lazy :o
    DD birthday gift
    DS birthday gift
    Littlest birthday gift

    Spends
    £20.82 Card shop online :cool:
    £16.25 Sweet cones
    £6 Unity bands
    £30 Cakes

    ££ Taxis.. soon be into 3 figures 2 days in. :o
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  • WannabeFree
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    Evening :)

    Not a NSD. Taxi fares, £3 to the smalls for Friday night treats, £2.20 on paper cup coffee at the hospital. I think I might even round the night of with a takeaway :o

    Been gifted DD's birthday gift from someone who has upgraded their DC's, need to find a game for the Xbox for her (although I refuse to pay the same price as it is for the newer Xbox version so will have a look around)

    DS want's branded trainers for his birthday. I thought I had a while before it got to this stage :(
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • Hi there

    Been quite a bright day here today and it definitely leads to brighter thoughts for me and hopefully for you too.

    I don't envy you the trainer thing. Labels are a strange thing really. I blame marketing boffins in dark offices who design/decide what is going to be popular. And it changes so fast!

    Try to have as good a weekend as you can

    Take care honey
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