Re:Update re crisis loan...

pipkin71

weymuffred wrote: »

If its like the IB50 form then its things like:

how far can you walk without being in pain (not word for word correct I know)

I have to do walking otherwise I cant get things done, I will be in constant pain and will then be bed ridden for a couple of days.
They dont exactly allow you much room to explain your condition. Even though many people suffer from the same thing, one might have more of a problem with for example sitting or lying down rather than walking. I find the forms confusing as well, they make me feel anxious.

You're right, they don't give you much room for filling them in. I continued my answers on a seperate piece of paper to counteract that problem.

I haven't read any of the other threads so don't know what advice you have had, but most councils - at their neighbourhood offices - have benefits advisors. The CAB will also offer benefit advice. I'm not sure how easy it would be for you to access these. They can help with filling in the forms.

I put in my forms that any over-exhertion can lead to being confined to bed and then gave examples of what can lead to this scenario. Put down everything you can think of. I'm sure I've read that you have a wife - ask her to fill the form in for you. Write everything on a plain piece of paper. Go through it with your wife to see if you have missed anything that she may be aware of.

Above all, try not to get anxious. Fill in bits at a time - the easy bits first, then come back to the difficult questions. Answer as honestly and concisely as you can. Give the names of any medical professionals who are caring for your health now and then the decision will be up to the dss.

Good luck

Pipkin xxxx

healy

weymuffred wrote: »

I am risk of getting banned from this forum because you keep on saying that i twisted and re edited posts because I would never ever ever bring my dads death into it to gain sympathy, as thankfully he taught to be truthful and respectful. The person who mentioned my dad was dmg and viktory (so many abusive posters I forgot who there names were!) who had the post with the rolling smily faces. You are stepping on thin ice.

You HAVE NOT BACKED UP, where is the proof of all these abusive pm's I sent dmg? What is the point of me lying? I have more important things to be worried about like getting over the death of my dad, looking after my family and trying to get better. Then I come on here and suffer abuse.

Why are you "risk of getting banned?" You did twist and re-edit posts as has been explained by dmg and you did try to gain sympathy over your Fathers death and blacken someones name, THAT IS A FACT. You have taken no notice of your Father as you are neither truthful or respectful as YOU have prooved. Again you are telling lies, we all know that. I saw your abusive PM to dmg, with her permission I can post it if you like. I do not know why you keep lying that is YOUR choice. You have dished out lots of abuse as has been also shown to you as I said before.

viktory

weymuffred wrote: »

I am risk of getting banned from this forum because you keep on saying that i twisted and re edited posts because I would never ever ever bring my dads death into it to gain sympathy, as thankfully he taught to be truthful and respectful. The person who mentioned my dad was dmg and viktory (so many abusive posters I forgot who there names were!) who had the post with the rolling smily faces. You are stepping on thin ice.

You HAVE NOT BACKED UP, where is the proof of all these abusive pm's I sent dmg? What is the point of me lying? I have more important things to be worried about like getting over the death of my dad, looking after my family and trying to get better. Then I come on here and suffer abuse.

Right, I was going to stay out of this one, but you have named me, so I am going to put the record straight. This post will almost certainly get deleted but what the hell.

Fred, the facts are simple. dmg said something you responded to. I quoted your response in full at 8.54pm (just before Murphys Law started). I said that dmg had a point (which he did) and said have fun children, I am off to watch Murphys Law. You edited your post that I had quoted at 9.14pm AFTER I quoted it to include a comment about your father dying (the father ou never actually bothered to visit for six months) and then accused me of laughing at the death of your father. I can no longer prove this as you made damn sure you had my post deleted - but interestingly your post wasn't. There are some good people on here who saw what you did and have backed me up consistently. I thank them wholeheartedly.

You are either suffering from some form of delusion and honestly believe the tripe you post or you are a sick, twisted, devious lying person. I have been a member of MSE for a good few years now and I have never come across anyone like you before. You are worse than a troll - trolls can be amusing.

I sincerely hope that you get the help (not financial) that you need.

Now someone quickly quote me before this post disappears!

weymuffred

dmg24 wrote: »

You accused viktory of making fun of your father having died. You quoted their post, at the same time editing it, in order to make it look like they were making fun of you. viktory had done no harm to you at all, yet you tried to make them look bad to other people. That is just not fair.

Furthermore, you changed your story regarding your father. At one point you were unable to attend medical assessments because your father was in a hospice, but at another time you said you had not seen your father in months.

sdw's comments about the possibility of paranoia are quite relevant here. Do you feel that you are doing yourself any good posting here?

I edited then deleted it then reposted, saying about my fathers death cos he posted these :rotfl: :rotfl: in reply to your post mentioning the same. He made himself look bad not me, I was just extremely upset and still am when my dad is bought into a conversation.
I missed 3 medicals the last one becuase My father was in a hospice and close to dying, just like he had been all year, just because I had not seen him does not mean I am going to be anymore upset etc than if I had been in the room with him all the time.

Yes but it doesnt help when my posts get hijacked and I am abused for no reason, then it really hurts.

viktory

weymuffred wrote: »

When they decide to apologise for the way they have treated me then I will stop. And I am thanking people who are offering help.

I would eat worms and walk over hot coals before apologising to you. I have done nothing wrong and am spitting fire that you are making spurious allegations against me. You should be banned.

seven-day-weekend

This isn't going to stop is it....???

viktory

Not until Winnifred stops lying or making untrue accusations. Or !!!!!!s off forever

viktory

weymuffred wrote: »

I missed 3 medicals the last one becuase My father was in a hospice and close to dying, just like he had been all year, just because I had not seen him does not mean I am going to be anymore upset etc than if I had been in the room with him all the time.

I could understand you missing a medical if you had actually been visiting your father. But you weren't.

dmg24

In the post that you are referring to, I did not mention the death of your father. I mentioned the fact that you had missed three IB medicals. You read things into the posts of myself and viktory that were not there.

It is examples such as this, that is why I do not think that this is a suitable place for you to be posting.

Labman_2

weymuffred wrote: »

When they decide to apologise for the way they have treated me then I will stop. And I am thanking people who are offering help.

...why didn't you thank Fran at the time she offered advice?