Re:Update re crisis loan...

dmg24

weymuffred wrote: »

Yes you did, you said I had sent you abusive private messages.

Is it me, or have I just offered you help, and rather than thank me for that, you try to pick an argument?

Sorry to disappoint, not rising to it!

However, I will point out something that I have stated several times:

An open internet forum is not a suitable place for a person with severe mental health problems.

weymuffred

healy wrote: »

I can prove it if you want but as many people have seen it there is no need, just check back, as if you dont already know.

no I mean prove it, ask the people who run the forum and get my posts checked, then you can apologise.

weymuffred

dmg24 wrote: »

Is it me, or have I just offered you help, and rather than thank me for that, you try to pick an argument?

Sorry to disappoint, not rising to it!

However, I will point out something that I have stated several times:

An open internet forum is not a suitable place for a person with severe mental health problems.

You see when people go around on public forums and say things like you have done but cannot prove it, that is slanderous and hurtful.
How would you feel?

Why cant people with mental health problems come on here ? Its just certain people dont stick to the rules of the forum.
I cannot believe that a fully sane person would not have been upset by some of the things that have been written on here about me.

healy

weymuffred wrote: »

no I mean prove it, ask the people who run the forum and get my posts checked, then you can apologise.

Why should I waste my time proving what everyone who has read this forum already knows. I will not apologise for YOUR sick use of your Fathers death to gain sympathy that is not deserved.

dmg24

weymuffred wrote: »

You see when people go around on public forums and say things like you have done but cannot prove it, that is slanderous and hurtful.
How would you feel?

Why cant people with mental health problems come on here ? Its just certain people dont stick to the rules of the forum.
I cannot believe that a fully sane person would not have been upset by some of the things that have been written on here about me.

People with MH problems are of course welcome on here, everyone is. However, (I assume because of your condition) you seem to take everything to the extreme, and take offence to the slightest thing. The help you need is available from professional agencies - your GP, your Community MH Team, a psychiatrist, CAB - not from individuals on an open forum.

If I write something contentious I do not expect everybody to agree with me. We all take responsibility for our own actions.

healy

weymuffred wrote: »

You see when people go around on public forums and say things like you have done but cannot prove it, that is slanderous and hurtful.
How would you feel?

Why cant people with mental health problems come on here ? Its just certain people dont stick to the rules of the forum.
I cannot believe that a fully sane person would not have been upset by some of the things that have been written on here about me.

It is not slanderous when it is the truth and how can it be hurtful when YOU have lied. What are you mental health problems apart from severe depression?

seven-day-weekend

Weymuffred may be suffering from paranoia (where he thinks everyone is 'out to get him'). It is a common symptom of depression, I have suffered from it myself.

However, whilst agreeing that he needs professional help for his mental health problems, I do not see why he should not ask advice on the forums (providing of couse that he can be sensible about the answers he is given).

Having said that, if someone IS paranoid, they will see people ganging up against them no matter what anyone says.

Perhaps all of us should be purely factual with our answers, and add no more, and Weymuffred should not post if he can't handle the answers he is given.

Wemuffred, I'm really trying to help here, and be a peacemaker. Please forgive me if I've got it totally wrong.

weymuffred

healy wrote: »

It is not slanderous when it is the truth and how can it be hurtful when YOU have lied. What are you mental health problems apart from severe depression?

I HAVE NOT lied and dont dare bring my fathers death into again. Is it not obvious that things posted by you etc have been deleted for a reason? Yes because they were rude and full of nastiness. You see see I can back up what I say, but when asked to backup when I have supposed to have lied, been rude etc, none of you can.

pipkin71

Weymuffred, what advice do you still need that has not been given, or you did not understand when it was posted?

If there was anything specific I will try and post it for you.

Pipkin xxxx

weymuffred

seven-day-weekend wrote: »

Weymuffred may be suffering from paranoia (where he thinks everyone is 'out to get him'). It is a common symptom of depression, I have suffered from it myself.

However, whilst agreeing that he needs professional help for his mental health problems, I do not see why he should not ask advice on the forums (providing of couse that he can be sensible about the answers he is given).

Having said that, if someone IS paranoid, they will see people ganging up against them no matter what anyone says.

Perhaps all of us should be purely factual with our answers, and add no more, and Weymuffred should not post if he can't handle the answers he is given.

Wemuffred, I'm really trying to help here, and be a peacemaker. Please forgive me if I've got it totally wrong.

I totally agree with what you are saying. But whose posts have been deleted? Not mine and I dont make the rules on the forums. Some of the posts on here were nothing to do with my query. But again thanks for trying to be the peacemaker, it is fully appreciated.