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How much was your wedding?

Just being nosy really, we are getting married in June 2018 and our is costing £16,000 for everything.


All being paid for cash, no borrowing


Extremely lucky that my family are contributing £4,000, his family also £4,000 and we're saving the rest.


How much was yours?
Did your families contribute anything?
Did you borrow any? (Credit card, loan etc)
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  • spadoosh
    spadoosh Posts: 8,732 Forumite
    Ninth Anniversary 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    ~£9000 including honeymoon.

    £5000 gift from parent.

    Accomodation for all guests (80) for the weekend. Most meals provided too.

    It was quite DIY, we had to arrange all aspects of the wedding. It was good fun planning. A lot of effort for a day i can barely remember though (im a bloke).

    Put most of it on credit card for protection. Got a small balance to settle but not in a rush with another 18 months of interest free. And theres money there should it be needed.
  • ska_lover
    ska_lover Posts: 3,773 Forumite
    1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    How much was yours? £2,500
    Did your families contribute anything? My parents brought my dress, very luckily ended up with a far nicer dress than had we been funding it
    Did you borrow any? No
    The opposite of what you know...is also true
  • Can't remember how much it was (27 yrs ago) but it wasn't extravagant even by the 90's standards.


    Parents & parents in law paid for some & we paid for the rest.


    Borrowing to pay for a wedding was unheard of then.
  • ariba10
    ariba10 Posts: 5,432 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Our wedding reception meal. (Three courses ) was 12/6 a head. (62.5 pence.)

    Mind you it was 66 years ago.

    Best of luck for the future.
    I used to be indecisive but now I am not sure.
  • 74jax
    74jax Posts: 7,930 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Around 2.5k, it was 3k, but we sold some stuff afterwards.


    All documented on the wedding board here on MSE too.


    Families didn't contribute and no borrowing.
    Forty and fabulous, well that's what my cards say....
  • svain
    svain Posts: 516 Forumite
    Eighth Anniversary 500 Posts
    £2.5k all in ... no borrowing and no contributions. We could of afforded much more but never saw the sense in spending more
  • How much was yours? Altogether we spent £1050 - that was a mid week wedding with 12 guests (immediate family) and a 3 course meal afterwards, all at a local hotel. That was also including my dress, DH's suit, son's suit, bridesmaid's dress, flowers, photographer and cake. Couldn't justify spending thousands on one day, not for us.
    Did your families contribute anything? No but we did get euroes for our honeymoon
    Did you borrow any? (Credit card, loan etc) No
  • Everything, even a meal for 13, cost £500.
  • £39 in 1994.

    £300k in 2016.
  • RedFraggle
    RedFraggle Posts: 1,442 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Rings £900, my dress £60, registry office I think around £200, meal after for us and our 2 chosen guests plus associated families £300, him new jeans and a shirt £70, party for 120 2 months down the line so only paid for DJ and buffet £600. Photography free for both wedding (friend did them) and party (stepson did them). No honeymoon, we're nit big holidayers. This was 8 years ago.
    Total £2130
    Officially in a clique of idiots
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