Single in Belfast (merged discussion)

talksalot81

Coolhandluke wrote: »

Your right Ivan,good guys are scarce,look after yourself,there are few of us left;)

My experience (as a male) is that there are loads of guys about who are great, heart is in the right place and all that but the older you get, the 'stranger' they become and the less likely you will ever change them!

blondie223

Coolhandluke wrote: »

Your right Ivan,good guys are scarce,look after yourself,there are few of us left;)
Do you think is Blondie really blonde?

Of course i am:rolleyes: i think

blondie223

talksalot81 wrote: »

My experience (as a male) is that there are loads of guys about who are great, heart is in the right place and all that but the older you get, the 'stranger' they become and the less likely you will ever change them!

i not really that old just turned 29 is that too old

talksalot81

blondie223 wrote: »

i not really that old just turned 29 is that too old

Not at all (but im bound to say that since im almost the same!). You find plenty of nice guys who are much older than that but there tends to be a reason. I suspect often it is career related. Certainly that is the case for women. But the truth is that I find the older woman with her own career etc. as being most attractive. Whilst my wife would tell you that I am far from your 'normal' male, I am certain I am not alone in my view!

blondie223

talksalot81 wrote: »

Not at all (but im bound to say that since im almost the same!). You find plenty of nice guys who are much older than that but there tends to be a reason. I suspect often it is career related. Certainly that is the case for women. But the truth is that I find the older woman with her own career etc. as being most attractive. Whilst my wife would tell you that I am far from your 'normal' male, I am certain I am not alone in my view!

People get married so young here i will be left with the rift raft

talksalot81

blondie223 wrote: »

People get married so young here i will be left with the rift raft

Something that I have learnt is that many of those getting married younger do so for the desire for the 'family unit'. If that is not what you want first and foremost, then time is your friend and not your enemy. Personally, being unattached no longer seems as terrible a thing as once it did!

Coolhandluke

blondie223 wrote: »

i not really that old just turned 29 is that too old

Personaly speaking Blondie you sound just perfect both in looks and in personalty,any guy with any sense will be mad to pass you bye.
It will be their loss.

If only i was 29 again.;)

blondie223

Coolhandluke wrote: »

Personaly speaking Blondie you sound just perfect both in looks and in personalty,any guy with any sense will be mad to pass you bye.
It will be their loss.

If only i was 29 again.;)

Oh you are making me blush im sure your not that old or you thirty:D

wifeforlife

Blondie I've just realised your not too far away from me being in Armagh, maybe we'll arrange a meet somewhere closer to us, with lots of eligable, single males and us 2 girlies hahaha

Cate

Coolhandluke

cathy2702 wrote: »

Blondie I've just realised your not too far away from me being in Armagh, maybe we'll arrange a meet somewhere closer to us, with lots of eligable, single males and us 2 girlies hahaha

Cate

Girls,could we make that a threesome?;)
Or a foursome if Ivan wants to come to?:eek: