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Thrown out of house by wife
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Dave56uk
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My wife through me out of the house 27 months ago....im in debt and renting a room for £200 per month......I spoke to her about divorce in which she replied no hurry...my wife and I own the house but she also owns 4 other properties in her name only..she has taken my name of the electoral register for the house..im not allowed to stay in house when I come to see my son unless I ask...I have been told I am entitled to half of everything..including properties in her name only..(how true is this?)..I really dont know what to do..any help would be so much appreciated.. many thanks
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See a solicitor. Some/most will give 30-60 mins free. How long were you married/together?
It will prob be 50/50 all assets (inc pensions), but there will prob be more for whoever your son lives with.
Why did you move out? If you jointly own it, you're just as entitled to stay there - at least until arrangements have been agreed.
Jx2024 wins: *must start comping again!*0 -
How long were you married/together?0
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married for 30yrs up till asked to move out..0
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You could also speak to the CAB0
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My wife through me out of the house 27 months ago....im in debt and renting a room for £200 per month......I spoke to her about divorce in which she replied no hurry...my wife and I own the house but she also owns 4 other properties in her name only..she has taken my name of the electoral register for the house..im not allowed to stay in house when I come to see my son unless I ask...I have been told I am entitled to half of everything..including properties in her name only..(how true is this?)..I really dont know what to do..any help would be so much appreciated.. many thanks
I would push for a divorce. I would say she is "in no hurry" as shes busy putting her assets "out of reach".
Speak to a solicitor ASAP and get the ball rolling.0 -
Move back in, it's your house as well. You have a right to live there, as much right as her. She doesn't automatically get extra rights over jointly owned property because she threw you out!
Of course she's not in a hurry for a divorce, she's got the benefit you a house which is half yours, all she has to do is fob you off.Proud member of the wokerati, though I don't eat tofu.Home is where my books are.Solar PV 5.2kWp system, SE facing, >1% shading, installed March 2019.Mortgage free July 20230 -
My wife through me out of the house 27 months ago....im in debt and renting a room for £200 per month......I spoke to her about divorce in which she replied no hurry...my wife and I own the house but she also owns 4 other properties in her name only..she has taken my name of the electoral register for the house..im not allowed to stay in house when I come to see my son unless I ask...I have been told I am entitled to half of everything..including properties in her name only..(how true is this?)..I really dont know what to do..any help would be so much appreciated.. many thanks
Just move back in? I mean come on, it's your house as much as hers!0 -
30 years is a long marriage so the starting point is a 50/50 split. Everything goes into the pot - property, pensions, savings and anything else you are both jointly or singly entitled to.
However if your son is a minor then his needs come first. You talk of having to see him at the house, which sounds as though he isn't old enough for you both to meet on neutral territory.
It would be a good idea for you to get legal advice and to get over to Wikivorce for support and advice.0 -
30 years is a long marriage so the starting point is a 50/50 split. Everything goes into the pot - property, pensions, savings and anything else you are both jointly or singly entitled to.
However if your son is a minor then his needs come first. You talk of having to see him at the house, which sounds as though he isn't old enough for you both to meet on neutral territory. - What? At what age is a child old enough?
It would be a good idea for you to get legal advice and to get over to Wikivorce for support and advice.
I'm sorry but that's a ridiculous point to even suggest, here's some simple maths to help you along:...
17 (minimum age of marriage) + 30 years (length of marriage) = NOT a newborn!0 -
I'm sorry but that's a ridiculous point to even suggest, here's some simple maths to help you along:...
17 (minimum age of marriage) + 30 years (length of marriage) = NOT a newborn!
Son could well be under 18 though? Is that not what's meant? I don't know what the relevance is.“What means that trump?” Timon of Athens by William Shakespeare0
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