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  • Glad to hear the procedure went okay, how very frustrating their were other problems.

    Please look after yourself and don't do too much 🤗
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  • KajiKita
    KajiKita Posts: 10,119 Forumite
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    edited 17 December 2025 at 10:24AM
    Ugh .... I feel your pain about neighbours' outside lights. We deliberately moved to the country for darkness (amongst other things) and a neighbour close to us has a light on all night every night (they were burgled, badly, a couple of years ago, so I don't feel able to say anything) - its so hard on the eyes when trying to look at the night sky, get used to seeing in moonlight etc. That light your neighbour has sounds worthy of a prison camp! 
    If they might be open to it, this might be worth sharing with them:
    darkskiesmatter.org.uk ??

    Or give them the number of your electrician ... ;) 

    I think cats believe that house should have no doors whilst still being absolutely draft proof and cosy-warm. They can't understand why Hoomans haven't sorted it yet! 🙄🤣

    Good luck with the paperwork and I hope you enjoy your walk :)

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  • greenbee
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    Have you told your neighbours that bright lights are actually helpful to burglars as they create shadows to hide in? I think I'll reply suggesting they try some armoured cable to lower it, and that I can give them details of a good electrician if they need one, asking for timescales to resolve it and requesting that they ask everyone in their household to be more considerate or disconnect it until they can fix it. And get going with the planting plan... 

    Dog says it's time to go out, so I guess I should get dressed and at least take him as far as the poo bin so I can dispose of last night's and this morning's deposits!
  • Could you put up a strategically placed mirror...? there are all sorts of garden mirror type things available now, but I've no idea whether the placement would be easy to pass off as "Oh goodness me, it reflects into your garden? How strange, that hadn't even occurred to me!" or whether it would just look overly ar53y. 
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  • greenbee
    greenbee Posts: 19,212 Forumite
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    Sadly the angles are such that neither a mirror nor balls would work. It's high up on their gable end (top of first floor/bottom of attic), at almost 90 degrees to the boundary at the end of my garden around 200ft away. 

    I've done the paperwork for the hospital (need to finish the last bit and send the email), so I can think about a suitable response to their last message. But I don't think it's unreasonable to a. ask for timescales b. ask them to not use it/disconnect it until they've resolved it (and make clear to other family members that they shouldn't use it) c. send a link to armoured cable that could be used to lower it to ground floor level d. send details of an electrician who would be able to solve it (I know they wouldn't pay for one though, they're big on DIY and bodging things). 

    If I don't get a satisfactory response then I'll submit details to the council. 

    I think I've removed all identifiable elements from this - which is what it looks like from my kitchen. What you can see on the left is the same light showing through my left-hand neighbours' garden. So I'm not the only person suffering. 


  • That light is horrendous, definitely makes the area resemble a prison yard 😢
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  • greenbee
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    That light is horrendous, definitely makes the area resemble a prison yard 😢
    It should be convincing if I have to submit evidence to the council!
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