O/S Daily Wednesday 27 September 2017

System

Deleted_User wrote: »

Morning ((((((((((hugs)))))))))) if you need one.

Not too clever this morning, OH had 3 attacks of breathlessness yesterday, is in hospital waiting to see the Dr.

Looks like it might be visiting again, waiting for s phone call.

Oh dear Csarina. Hope OH is seen to promptly and he doesnt have to wait too long. Get well soon Mr Csarina!

Karcher thinking of you. Hope the rest of the week is bearable. I dont think i mentioned it before but Grump was a Salesman when we met. Work got so stressful he had a breakdown and was off work for several months. He couldnt pick the phone up for a good 12 months afterwards and when he did go back to work he was deployed in another department where he had no stress. During this time he went to college and learned the trade he is in now. He still gets periods of stress but when he has had enough he quits. Fortunately he is never out of work for more than a few weeks before something else pops up. I really feel for you, i am worrying about the symptoms you are having. If you cant leave, the problems cant be settled please go and see your GP.

camelot1001

Morning All

Hope Mr csarina recovers soon, hugs to you csarina.
That's a horrible situation karcher, hope something is sorted soon.

The weather here is quite mild, feels weird to be suffering from a cough and cold and the weather is ok, I should be snuggled up next to the fire! I'm not going in again today, need to get this shifted. A school is not the best place to avoid germs! I may take a walk down to Ald! later for some fresh air and supplies, paracetemol is running low.

Hope you all have a happy Wednesday, take care. XX

Floss

Karcher are you able to take paid sick time and /or get a referral to your Occy Health team? I was like that last year, the panic attacks at 3am on my own really scared me so I went off sick and walked after 15 weeks and a damming OH report. Apparently all the changes and actions I had been suggesting & asking for are now in place...obvs wasn't impossible after all

Csarina big hug for you, hope OH begins to get help & improves soon.

Pottering day today - DH has a meeting that I thought was 10.30am start & 8am departure, but no it's 10.30am departure so have lost several husband-free hours :rotfl: I know I shouldn't complain but he is home-based and while I am not working we get under each other's feet a bit

Still I have got some ironing to do and a bathroom to clean & towels to launder so that should keep me busy for a while until he leaves Then I will nip out and do my running around to the P.O. and to drop some books and a couple of bags off at the chazzer. Not planning to go far as the sky looks full of rain here.

Nelski

Morning :wave:

Karcher Agree with Judi hun and I worry about how much stress you are under. I have learned some very stark lessons this year about the physical ramifications of stress how you can run yourself right into the ground very easily. Your health is far more important than anything else so please see your doctor and get signed off

csarina hope the doctors help Mr csarina properly this time. He's in the right place xMake sure you are taking care of yourself too.

Judi I envy you finishing your decluttering have you any hot tips for a clutter bug?

Lots going on for everyone today hope it works out as you would want it. :A

Day off from taking mum shopping and spending the day with her as my brother is going over. Good job bro that must be ....wait a sec while I work it out......yes that must be twice you've taken her shopping now :T:T:T Mum of course is treating it as a royal visit.

Lovely night with my book club girls last night ...one of the girls has recently got married so it was a celebration no mention of books lol
Very tasty Tapas and a few buckets of sangria cant complain about that :cool: great girls who have very quickly become good friends.

No idea what food will be eaten today but no doubt something from the kitchen

Floss

Nelski how did the fish & chips go down with the non-tapas eater?!

Hollyharvey

((Csarina)) You have both had such a rotten time of it lately. I hope that your OH gets the treatment that he needs now that he is at the hospital and that he gets seen by a doctor quickly.


((Karcher)) I agree with the others, can you take some sick leave? It sounds like if you can't get them to resolve this situation quickly, you do need some time away from it.

System

Judi I envy you finishing your decluttering have you any hot tips for a clutter bug?

I started off small.... a pile of house bricks to be exact. 3 or 4 at a time every week.:D

Sod Marie Kondo who does it all in one go, i had to do it at my own pace. Its took years.

The only thing i havent been able to touch is Grumps shed.... its got all his man stuff in it and is his to sort. He wouldnt take kindly to me messing around in his shed and rightly so.

Nelski

Floss wrote: »

Nelski how did the fish & chips go down with the non-tapas eater?!

It was too small apparently (tapas size lol) so after she had a good old moan the waiter brought some egg and chips :rotfl:

Thanks Judi ....time to get brave and tackle Grumps shed now?

[Deleted User]

Well I had a call from the hospital, OH had blood tests taken and if they were ok he would be coming home, then apparently he went to the toilet and fell!! Whether he passed out or just fell I do not know. I am so sick of this, he is getting worse and worse and no one seems to be taking any notice. If he comes home, both of us will be prisoners. I will not be able to go out and leave him because he is not safe to be left.

I am waiting for a call back. If I do not hear I will phone after 1pm and go in and see just whats going on. Its two hours since I got the call.

Nelski

Deleted_User wrote: »

Well I had a call from the hospital, OH had blood tests taken and if they were ok he would be coming home, then apparently he went to the toilet and fell!! Whether he passed out or just fell I do not know. I am so sick of this, he is getting worse and worse and no one seems to be taking any notice. If he comes home, both of us will be prisoners. I will not be able to go out and leave him because he is not safe to be left.

I am waiting for a call back. If I do not hear I will phone after 1pm and go in and see just whats going on. Its two hours since I got the call.

so sorry csarina you need to get there and start insisting that he stays in...is there anyone else that can help you? Take it easy as you can though no point you getting ill too xx