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No presents - is that really tight?
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mitchlouise wrote: »The only prob is that maybe its quite late? I know i've bought a lot now and if my mate said no presents this year i've already spent our £20 budget.
However we have children only x-mas with my Dads side of the family and it works really well...
Yeah, I see your point but how about from next year?I bet you everyone will be relieved! I do believe Christmas pressies are more for the kids, (whereas everyone should be spoilt on their birthday
)..so I will always get my niece and nephew something but us adults have most things that we want or need, so you just get into a habit of buying something for each other, just for the sake of it and tradition and it costs everyone a fortune, when you add it all up.
Break with tradition!!!!:D
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My ohs family do a huge expensive xmas do - mostly on credit. Last year we told everyone we weren't buying things from their "lists" and made everyone a pressie instead. Their attitude was "its ok for you cos your on benefits, but we must prove that we are not as poor as you". We have no christmas debt this year, but they are still paying theirs off.
My family tend to draw/paint/write/cook something - always goes down well and they have no debt.0 -
mitchlouise wrote: »The only prob is that maybe its quite late? I know i've bought a lot now and if my mate said no presents this year i've already spent our £20 budget.
However we have children only x-mas with my Dads side of the family and it works really well...
It is only too late for super organised beings like yourselfI never do any christmas shopping till December
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In my family it was my mum who spoke up amongst her brother and sisters. Most of us grandchildren are now adults and my mum suggested that everyone just spent £1 on each other, and I think that will fizzle out over the next few years anyway. I only buy for parents, step-parents, grandparents and siblings as I think it could just get out of hand otherwise (and probably will anyway with the number of brothers and sisters I've got!).Got married 23rd May 2009, many thanks to all on the Weddings and Anniversaries board for their help and support!
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I used to go mental, spending hundreds at xmas on all the family.Having had years and years of getting sod all, or really crap stuff (off certain family members), I have now decided to just buy for the kids, my mum and dad, my daughter and my close mates.Otherwise we end up spending roughly the same amount on each other, and more often than not get duplicate pressies, or stuff we don't want.
As Loublue has so poignantly said, it's the people that are more important, and with my Dad being so ill this year, that really rang true for me"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf"
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As Loublue has so poignantly said, it's the people that are more important, and with my Dad being so ill this year, that really rang true for me
Aww, hope everyone is ok, CG.I am not looking forward to my first Xmas without her but I shall celebrate it with the loved ones I have around me, she would want that.
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Aww, hope everyone is ok, CG.
I am not looking forward to my first Xmas without her but I shall celebrate it with the loved ones I have around me, she would want that.
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf"
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Done another friend yesterday, she was really pleased as she is always skint and she says it will help a lot, this is proving to be easier than i thought0
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As soon as me and my sister had children we said we wouldn't buy for eachother just the kids and we have and its worked out great. :T .
I just buy for my little sister (she has no children but shes 22).
My children,
A limit of £50.00 for hubby
and a calender form the kids to the inlaws (it has pics of the children inside)
Thats it.
I dont buy cousins, aunts etc as it gets out of hand and you have to have a cut off point somewhere.
He sorts out his mum and dad for the main pressies and looks after anyone on his side if he so wishes (he dont though;) ).
We dont have alot of money and people just have to understand that.Capital one was £1000.00 now £0.00:j
Barclaycard was £250.00 now £190. 00
Asda credit card was £500.00 now £0.00:j
Aim to be credit card free by December 2012... Mostly done0
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