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Work shy relative is becoming a nuisance

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  • Mupette
    Mupette Posts: 4,599 Forumite
    How is your husband now a days? Do you still think he is carrying on with your daughter in law with the post natal depression.

    oh and the relative who was carrying on with the barmaid for a bath.

    Are you still akin to the Royals, what's your thoughts on Kate having baby number 3, what do you think boy or girl?
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  • Pollycat
    Pollycat Posts: 35,755 Forumite
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    Bath_cube wrote: »
    I got a call from his sister earlier. She told me his GF did have a miscarry years ago in 1984.
    Why on earth are you discussing something that happened over 30 years ago?
    Why has this unfortunate event even been brought up?
    Bath_cube wrote: »
    She told me to ignore him, not easy with no caller I'D.
    Quite a few years ago, I bought a very cheap landline phone from Argos for my parents. It shows who's calling. You can then choose to answer or not.
    I'm sure there are many more inexpensive alternatives nowadays.

    And even if you answer the phone and it's your cousin, why do you continue to listen to his whining?
    You do have the option of putting the phone down.
    Bath_cube wrote: »
    I have no intentions of having him come to stay at mine. He will just doss around making a mess and leaving it for myself and my OH to sort out. Also I'm told he has the television in his room on loud until about 3am at night I'm up at 6.30am. I wouldnt finance my own brother who I love and care for deeply let alone a lazy slob with a big sense of self.
    The bit in bold is totally irrelevant and unnecessary if you really mean the sentence in red.
  • bertiewhite
    bertiewhite Posts: 1,904 Forumite
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    Mupette wrote: »
    How is your husband now a days? Do you still think he is carrying on with your daughter in law with the post natal depression.

    oh and the relative who was carrying on with the barmaid for a bath.

    Are you still akin to the Royals, what's your thoughts on Kate having baby number 3, what do you think boy or girl?

    Where's that come from???
  • Pollycat
    Pollycat Posts: 35,755 Forumite
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    Where's that come from???

    There's a belief by some posters that the OP of this thread had a previous username of bluelass.
  • annandale
    annandale Posts: 1,451 Forumite
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    Complete fairy story from start to end.

    Comment about when a royal gets a job I will.

    Bluelass still trolling for all she's worth.
  • scd3scd4
    scd3scd4 Posts: 1,180 Forumite
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    Why am I reading all this caca!!
  • Bath_cube
    Bath_cube Posts: 188 Forumite
    Today I have been off to attend a hospital appointment. He phoned me while I was on the bus coin home. Says he wants to come to mine. I asked how will you support yourself? His answer was oh well you have a good job and can afford to keep me. I told him to F off and never call me again. I have had narcolepsy for 19 years but it never stopped me studying and getting a job. I have a colleague with spina bifida who is wheel chair reliant and he has always worked. Granted I need a power nap when I get home and I only work 30 hours per week but my cousin has no physical or mental health issues. I called my cousin (his sister) when I got back and told her I'm never going to entertain him again end of. Lazy sod reckons he was once a unison representative I told him to do that plenty of knowledge in the work place is required of which he has none.
  • maman
    maman Posts: 29,700 Forumite
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    Pollycat wrote: »
    There's a belief by some posters that the OP of this thread had a previous username of bluelass.


    If that's the case I wish she'd stick to fake Uggs and black plimsolls!:D
  • annandale wrote: »
    Complete fairy story from start to end.

    Comment about when a royal gets a job I will.

    Bluelass still trolling for all she's worth.

    Who trolls the trolls? ;)
  • scd3scd4
    scd3scd4 Posts: 1,180 Forumite
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    edited 17 October 2017 at 4:11PM
    Let him live with you, stop being selfish. He wants the big bedroom as well. You have a good job can you not support him and he will do some housework, ironing and walk the dog.


    What's happening about xmas. is he getting this trophy or not.


    Ohhh and stop calling him a Hedge Mumper as its not very nice.
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