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What did you buy your son for 18th or 21st Birthday?

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  • Spendless
    Spendless Posts: 24,967 Forumite
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    My son is 18 earlish next year and I haven't even given it a thought yet.

    Something he once received as a christmas present was a themed chess set, that's something you could keep for many years if you wished to.

    For both my 18th and 21st I received jewellery and at 50 don't own either.

    My 21st bracelet, I took in for repair, lost the receipt and never got it back. My 18th it stopped fitting so I weighed it in with other unworn gold I had and used the money towards a computer, which in turn helped me find a much needed job.
  • richardw
    richardw Posts: 19,468 Forumite
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    easy wrote: »
    ..However, as they invariably get accidentally left in the shirt in the washing machine, I think I'll give them a miss.

    He doesn't have to use them on a daily basis, it's the thought that counts.
    Posts are not advice and must not be relied upon.
  • pimento
    pimento Posts: 6,243 Forumite
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    Premium Bonds.
    "If you think it's expensive to hire a professional to do the job, wait until you hire an amateur." -- Red Adair
  • Auntie-Dolly
    Auntie-Dolly Posts: 1,008 Forumite
    Pay for his first tattoo!
  • Marvel1
    Marvel1 Posts: 7,478 Forumite
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    Money towards what he said he wants - the fancy gaming computer.
  • alex_163163
    alex_163163 Posts: 310 Forumite
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    I think an experience as someone said above.
    Not everyone's cup of tea but for my 21st my parents bought me a bird of prey falconry day in the Yorkshire dales. It was on a little farm in a hamlet. My parents could come too and observe. Hands down one of the best days I've ever had!
  • Robisere
    Robisere Posts: 3,237 Forumite
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    Does he drive yet?
    https://www.trackdays.co.uk/driving-experience/junior/

    Gave my son the Senior Driver experience for his 40th, he loved it. Everyone knows we never grow up, right ladies?
    I think this job really needs
    a much bigger hammer.
  • gt568
    gt568 Posts: 2,535 Forumite
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    I don't get the significance of a 21st, can someone enlighten me?
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  • Gloomendoom
    Gloomendoom Posts: 16,551 Forumite
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    gt568 wrote: »
    I don't get the significance of a 21st, can someone enlighten me?

    It's when you are traditionally given your own key to the house. i.e. You are a proper grown up.
  • Marvel1
    Marvel1 Posts: 7,478 Forumite
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    gt568 wrote: »
    I don't get the significance of a 21st, can someone enlighten me?

    It's confusing, we make a fuss being 30, 40, 50 etc but not 10 or 20.
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