New relationship

PeacefulWaters

Lots of free museums in London.

I prefer the Natural History.

Kathy535

The suggestion of getting a hotel in Watford would keep costs down, but even going a few miles outside of the centre can be affordable. For example, Tower Hill premier Inn and Travelodges are usually £40-50 cheaper than Kensington or Westminster versions.obviously, it helps to book early to get the best deals. Use Trivago to compare hotel sites but check prices directly with the likes of Ibis, Premier Inn and Travelodge as they usually have the cheapest offers. I think Ibis offer a discount if you are a member of their 'club'.

As PeacefulWaters says, lots of free museums in London, and galleries too. There are some interesting museums (check to see if they charge) http://www.telegraph.co.uk/travel/destinations/europe/united-kingdom/england/london/articles/londons-most-unusual-museums/

A wander around Camden Market, Covent Garden, south bank is entertaining and free. There are some lovely parks and it's romantic to walk through the tress watching the squirrels. People watching is one of our favourite activities!

Use sites like book a table and open table for cheaper dining. You'll know that some chain restaurants offer vouchers etc if you sign up to their website - check these are valid in central London. If you wanted to push the boat out, last minute.com often offer dinner and show tickets which work out good value, provided you aren't fussy about what you see.

Walk it is a good app for directions between places, saving the bus or tube fare.

Check Time Out for free things that are on when you go.

If you were minded to go somewhere different than London, Glasgow is lovely, Newcastle is very welcoming and Leeds is a great night out with some really good cheap restaurants.

Have a great break, it sounds like all the right factors are already there for a fabulous time!

Kirstie_

Elijah_Bailey wrote: »

Just a few points -

1. Go on the train together as you will find the journey much more enjoyable when you can spend more quality time with each other (not sitting in London or M25 traffic).

Thats true. The dates we want have cheap first class tickets available so I might just get them.

2. It is not "all about you" if he asks how to save your life from anaphylactic shock. He appears to be genuinely concerned for your health. This is not something to worry about.

I just worry that he might think I'm making it about me when I really don't want him thinking about this

4. if he has a list of your competition dates, then it must be because he wants to see you compete. If he does not appear, perhaps wait for his explanation before over reacting. He could have traffic problems, a car breakdown or work issues which prevent him getting there. Stay calm.

He said nothing will stop him being there, I just been skyping him and he is in Birmingham and he is tired, I don't want him feeling he has to drive from Birmingham to see me compete then head back as that would make him so tired then to work the next day. I'd feel bad, he said he would be fine and nothings stopping him from seeing me compete. I know he plays cricket and I'd like to go see him. I genuinely wouldn't know what to do at a cricket match

ringo_24601 wrote: »

Quite simply - We men are simple creatures. If you want a picture of you two together then ask him ("Can you email me that lovely picture you have of us on your phone/desk, I'd love to print a copy myself")

I just know as he works in IT he would just print it himself for me :rotfl:

Sounds like you just need to go on 'days out' dates - and there's plenty of those. If you're up North you could head to the lake district, Chester... even an ironic trip to Llandudno or Blackpool (ok, St. Helens is nicer for the beach).

We do We went Blackpool for a walk up the prom

He said to cut down on costs, We could make the hotel a few pounds as he has Platinum card at IHG hotels. Not sure if they are any good?

I know I'm overthinking at times I just don't want him thinking I make things about me, I'd love to be able to say "we can go anywhere" and not worry if I eat something it might make me ill or I'll end up allergic to it. I just don't want him getting tired seeing me compete.

I over think things at times Like He wants me to meet his parents when he has a weekend off and I don't have a trade show. but I don't want them thinking I'm some fussy eater or on some crazy fad diet

Kirstie_

So I am competing tonight and I'm nervous about the competition, and if he will come. I told him he didn't have to, but I'd like him there. but I don't want to make him more tired from travelling.

Why am I so nervous

Placitasgirl

You really are verging on trying to micro manage this relationship. Early days are some of the most wonderful times with a partner; you're getting to know each other and making memories that will be with you forever. Please, please, please try to relax and enjoy the moment or you're going to wear yourself (and your new man) out and could come across as a bit of a control freak.

Lighten up, go with the flow, relax and see where this thing goes. If he really wants to come see you compete he'll be there, and you making yourself a nervous wreck either beforehand or during the competition surely can't be conducive to giving your best performance.

Good luck with the competition and your fledgling relationship!

heartbreak_star

OP.

Chill.

He wants to see you for you, not some ridiculous you that you're trying to project.

Breathe deeply, be yourself, and I hope the competition went well

HBS x

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Kirstie_ wrote: »

He said to cut down on costs, We could make the hotel a few pounds as he has Platinum card at IHG hotels. Not sure if they are any good?

IHG hotels include Crowne Plaza (Usually v nice), InterContinental (Really nice), Holiday Inn Express (think a tad nicer than Travelodge) and Holiday Inn (Not bad). So yes, they are normally nice hotels.

Your bloke is likely to move mountains to see you in the early days of your relationship. He'll go out of his way to make you happy and bend to whatever your dietary needs are. He'll defend them if questioned.

So - Chill. The. Hell. Out.

But also - Don't expect psychic abilities either

fairy_lights

Kirstie_ wrote: »

I just worry that he might think I'm making it about me when I really don't want him thinking about this

I'm sorry but this made me laugh, I'm imagining you having a severe allergic reaction and quietly sitting there trying not to die so as not to draw attention to yourself :rotfl:
Believe me, if you have serious allergies then it's perfectly acceptable to make it 'all about you' when discussions of where to eat come up. If this relationship turns in to something serious then he will need to know all the ins and outs of your dietary requirements so he may as well learn now.

I think you're majorly overthinking all this, he obviously likes you so just try to relax.

heartbreak_star

Yup, I'd been with my ex about a month when he taught me to recognise hypos and give insulin injections he taught all his friends as well just in case

HBS x

Kirstie_

I'm not trying to be that naggy or micro managing girlfriend. I just like certainty. I know I should relax, I just want things to be right because I've never felt like this with any other boyfriend I know that sounds really bad for a 25 year old woman!

As for sitting there trying not to die if I ate something that I shouldn't, You are right :rotfl: I'd just smile and carry on, I know my boyfriend wouldn't want that and he would want it about me.

Thanks for the help about the hotel, I looked and saw a nice hotel, I used his points and they wanted £30 (He has loads of points left over so I must have done something wrong! he said he would sort it as they charged his card and I'll have to give him the money)

But the thing I'm happy about he come to see me compete, I asked him for a copy of the photo and he brought me one in a frame which was really sweet, We had a quick coffee before he headed back and I feel bad that he will be tired.

My friend suggested flying to London, Im right in thinking the train is cheaper?