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Journey to £0 by 2020, with a few bumps along the way

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  • chelseablue
    chelseablue Posts: 3,303 Forumite
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    Sounds like you have it under control. Is it 0%?

    Why was your car insurance so expensive? Presumably you are not paying for your DHs insurance?

    Yes it was my husbands car insurance, we separated the month after I paid it (doh!) but he is paying me back £100 a month
    I paid mine on the card too

    Hadn't used a credit card in about 6 months before June :doh:

    It's not 0% so want to clear asap (tempted to use the £1,500 savings but then I would have zero if anything were to happen in the house, maybe I could send £500 to the card)

    I have 0% BT offers with Virgin so could transfer it over
  • enthusiasticsaver
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    Yes it was my husbands car insurance, we separated the month after I paid it (doh!) but he is paying me back £100 a month
    I paid mine on the card too

    Hadn't used a credit card in about 6 months before June :doh:

    It's not 0% so want to clear asap (tempted to use the £1,500 savings but then I would have zero if anything were to happen in the house, maybe I could send £500 to the card)

    I have 0% BT offers with Virgin so could transfer it over

    I would use £500 of the savings and not balance transfer it if you intend clearing within 2 months. You will still have your £1000 emergency fund.
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  • chelseablue
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    I would use £500 of the savings and not balance transfer it if you intend clearing within 2 months. You will still have your £1000 emergency fund.

    Yes I have decided to do that :)

    I bought some new shoes today, desperately need some new work shoes as I've been wearing the same pair every day since March :eek:

    I did see some in Next for £28 but didn't buy them, I went to Sainsbury's and saw a pair for £20 and got those instead.

    Today's spend
    Shoes £20
    Packed lunch items £3.95 (Son has to take a packed lunch to holiday club, this amount will last a few days)

    All the direct debits went out today and there is £1,136 in the bank to last me 3 weeks. I have a full tank of petrol, so just food shopping to do and that's mainly Aldi

    One evening next week Im meeting people I used to work with for a curry, I'll be driving so shouldn't cost more than £30. That's my only planned extra spend for this month

    Be very interested to see how much I still have left before pay day now Im on my own, husband was the spender

    Spoke to him yesterday and he moaned about being almost skint and he only got paid on the 25th July

    Now there's karma :rotfl:
  • Sorry to hear about DH. Be careful he doesn't go and get a credit card and hope you'll pay that off for him again.
  • enthusiasticsaver
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    I hope he is paying you child maintenance and repaying you for his insurance.
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  • chelseablue
    chelseablue Posts: 3,303 Forumite
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    Sorry to hear about DH. Be careful he doesn't go and get a credit card and hope you'll pay that off for him again.

    Thank you, if he does get a credit card then that'll be his issue, I certainly wont be contributing
  • chelseablue
    chelseablue Posts: 3,303 Forumite
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    I hope he is paying you child maintenance and repaying you for his insurance.

    Yes, plus his half of the mortgage
  • chelseablue
    chelseablue Posts: 3,303 Forumite
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    Total spends over the weekend...……………. £3 !

    Saturday we just had a lazy day at home and yesterday we went into town with mother in law so I spent £3 on parking

    Cant remember the last time I spent so little on a weekend! So chuffed

    Think I need to get out more, but that costs money :rotfl:
  • chelseablue
    chelseablue Posts: 3,303 Forumite
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    Just paid £400 off the Barclaycard, new balance £1,858
  • enthusiasticsaver
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    Good going on Barclaycard repayment and low spends over the weekend. Speaks volumes that you are doing well on the low spending and your ex is skint very quickly after payday. I do sometimes wonder if couples who have different attitudes to spending can make things work long term. My DH is a fritterer but has got better over the years and now our finances are secure I don't worry as much but in the early years there were many many arguments. It just makes life so much easier if you are both on the same page.
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