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HELP grey areas??

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  • FBaby
    FBaby Posts: 18,374 Forumite
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    OP has said herself she didn't want to go and it had affected her MH. It's not easy to move abroad, make new friends, having little help with children and some can't make it work.

    It is a pity when you then have to pay for two households, so I sympathise with OP, however, believing that this should mean that she should be entitled to others supporting her choices is wrong, especially when there is the option to work and make up that income for herself.
  • Art_Deco
    Art_Deco Posts: 188 Forumite
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    ALW95 wrote: »
    & not every armed forces person is mega rich! It's based on rank & what service you're in for a kick off.

    Just a simple yes or no to my question would have been suffice not a whole load of judging about my situation get !!!!ed the lot of you.
    Charming way to treat people who are trying to help you ,could you help yourself and find employment?
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