Disciplinary for conduct outside of work???

theoretica

Janey33 wrote: »

Your right the story is jumbled...
I didn't know he worked there or was pulling into another space i just thought he was leaving the scene...
On talking to him he did apologise and admitted fault... took his name and number...
He went into work...
He and the men came out.. be was quiet they were abusive.. this is when I got scared and called 999...
They all went back into store...
I sat for 20 mins waiting for my partners appointment to finish..
Men came back out..
Yes I got back out, I might have been scared but I refuse to be pushed around
I walked into the store to talk to the lad involved... males came back into store asked me to leave which I did... partner came out of her app while this was happening
Units arrived about 5 mins later
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The officers confirmed exchange of details.
I'm not trying to appear dishonest as I'm not a dishonest person.
Appreciate honest feedback.. appears im in trouble for not being bullied away from the scene and getting angry...
In all honesty all I asked for was to talk, and for him to face situation not send bullies when he had already admitted fault

Have you thought about attending a self defence class? With your work I imagine you could find good recommendations and it might give you the confidence not to do stupid things in future. The ones I consider good spend a lot of time talking about what the best possible outcome is and persuading people it is fine to be the one to back down. You had what you needed - the contact details - so don't get into pointless monkey dances.