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  • lovinituk
    lovinituk Posts: 5,711 Forumite
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    Sncjw wrote: »
    You need to change in general. These aren't instantly going to give you a girlfriend. Humans are complex thing and we don't all follow the same algorithm to fancy someone.

    If you do get with someone please make sure it's because you actually like them not because you just want a girlfriend.
    Are you still taking this seriously?! No-one else is - have you seen our posts lately :rotfl:
  • Sncjw
    Sncjw Posts: 3,577 Forumite
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    Because you probably been so negative about it:

    You need to read these books with an open mind. If they aren't working for you then your not ready to change. You think you might be ready but your not
    Mortgage free wannabe 

    Actual mortgage stating amount £75,150

    Overpayment paused to pay off cc 

    Starting balance £66,565.45

    Current balance £56099

    Cc around £3200 

  • Sncjw
    Sncjw Posts: 3,577 Forumite
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    I'm actually giving up on him now because he doesn't want to change. He is just being negative about every single thing/

    Look at the children who died recently don't you think they wanted a future. You have the chance to change your future but you have to do it proactively, not blame other people and change your mind set.
    Mortgage free wannabe 

    Actual mortgage stating amount £75,150

    Overpayment paused to pay off cc 

    Starting balance £66,565.45

    Current balance £56099

    Cc around £3200 

  • prosaver
    prosaver Posts: 7,026 Forumite
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    heres one

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    oh, youve read it
    “Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.”
    ― George Bernard Shaw
  • lovinituk
    lovinituk Posts: 5,711 Forumite
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    prosaver wrote: »
    heres one

    41CnUGklkyL._AC_US218_.jpg

    oh, youve read it
    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
  • sam_m
    sam_m Posts: 429 Forumite
    I am not being negative about it, with the job finding i have tried everything, I have applied for every single job going and all they say is you are not the right person we are looking for or you will need more voluntary work, thats why i get angry, I do bloody voluntary work every single weekend, i do more work then some people actually get paid for.

    And loveitintheUK. I actually thought you were trying to help. You are just rude
  • sam_m
    sam_m Posts: 429 Forumite
    Sncjw wrote: »
    I'm actually giving up on him now because he doesn't want to change. He is just being negative about every single thing/

    Look at the children who died recently don't you think they wanted a future. You have the chance to change your future but you have to do it proactively, not blame other people and change your mind set.

    Of course i am being negative, there is nothing to be happy about!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • Sncjw
    Sncjw Posts: 3,577 Forumite
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    No sam you are rude. There's 26 pages of help but you just won't listen or read. Good luck for the future but for god sake please take people advice
    Mortgage free wannabe 

    Actual mortgage stating amount £75,150

    Overpayment paused to pay off cc 

    Starting balance £66,565.45

    Current balance £56099

    Cc around £3200 

  • lovinituk
    lovinituk Posts: 5,711 Forumite
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    sam_m wrote: »
    And loveitintheUK. I actually thought you were trying to help. You are just rude
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  • sam_m
    sam_m Posts: 429 Forumite
    Sncjw wrote: »
    No sam you are rude. There's 26 pages of help but you just won't listen or read. Good luck for the future but for god sake please take people advice

    FOR CRYING OUT LOUD THERE HAS BEEN NO ADVICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I can not do any more then i have done
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