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feel so stupid
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You need to change in general. These aren't instantly going to give you a girlfriend. Humans are complex thing and we don't all follow the same algorithm to fancy someone.
If you do get with someone please make sure it's because you actually like them not because you just want a girlfriend.0 -
Because you probably been so negative about it:
You need to read these books with an open mind. If they aren't working for you then your not ready to change. You think you might be ready but your notMortgage free wannabe
Actual mortgage stating amount £75,150
Overpayment paused to pay off cc
Starting balance £66,565.45
Current balance £56099
Cc around £32000 -
I'm actually giving up on him now because he doesn't want to change. He is just being negative about every single thing/
Look at the children who died recently don't you think they wanted a future. You have the chance to change your future but you have to do it proactively, not blame other people and change your mind set.Mortgage free wannabe
Actual mortgage stating amount £75,150
Overpayment paused to pay off cc
Starting balance £66,565.45
Current balance £56099
Cc around £32000 -
heres one
oh, youve read it“Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.”
― George Bernard Shaw0 -
I am not being negative about it, with the job finding i have tried everything, I have applied for every single job going and all they say is you are not the right person we are looking for or you will need more voluntary work, thats why i get angry, I do bloody voluntary work every single weekend, i do more work then some people actually get paid for.
And loveitintheUK. I actually thought you were trying to help. You are just rude0 -
I'm actually giving up on him now because he doesn't want to change. He is just being negative about every single thing/
Look at the children who died recently don't you think they wanted a future. You have the chance to change your future but you have to do it proactively, not blame other people and change your mind set.
Of course i am being negative, there is nothing to be happy about!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!0 -
No sam you are rude. There's 26 pages of help but you just won't listen or read. Good luck for the future but for god sake please take people adviceMortgage free wannabe
Actual mortgage stating amount £75,150
Overpayment paused to pay off cc
Starting balance £66,565.45
Current balance £56099
Cc around £32000 -
No sam you are rude. There's 26 pages of help but you just won't listen or read. Good luck for the future but for god sake please take people advice
FOR CRYING OUT LOUD THERE HAS BEEN NO ADVICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I can not do any more then i have done0
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