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  • prosaver
    prosaver Posts: 7,026 Forumite
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    sam_m wrote: »
    1. Would you be happy if you have never had a gf, never kissed a girl, never even hugged a girl or held ones hand and then see them kiss and hug on new years eve
    Sub consciously you dont want one

    2. Would you be happy that you have a disability but can't drive and wouldn't get a free car when he drives and gets a free car every 2 years
    keep the 55 pound a week, where are you going to drive too?
    “Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.”
    ― George Bernard Shaw
  • lovinituk
    lovinituk Posts: 5,711 Forumite
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    sam_m wrote: »
    There is no way to go up though. I Will eat my hat if my life is going to get better by xmas
    Hats are not just for christmas!!
  • Sncjw
    Sncjw Posts: 3,577 Forumite
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    Things will only change when a person is ready to change and implements steps to change which I don't think you are because your blaming others
    Mortgage free wannabe 

    Actual mortgage stating amount £75,150

    Overpayment paused to pay off cc 

    Starting balance £66,565.45

    Current balance £56099

    Cc around £3200 

  • sam_m
    sam_m Posts: 429 Forumite
    Sncjw wrote: »
    Things will only change when a person is ready to change and implements steps to change which I don't think you are because your blaming others

    But i want to change. I really want to change.
  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Posts: 35,242 Forumite
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    At least you wouldn't get into trouble for forgetting anniversaries.
  • prosaver
    prosaver Posts: 7,026 Forumite
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    sam_m wrote: »
    If i never find a partner, get married and have kids then i would rather end my life now. It is my NIGHTMARE to die a lonely old man in a cold house. I would always be known as the guy who lived out his life as a old man without anybody to love, hold and kiss, without family
    how would people know just say you go on holiday now and then and have a good time, no one would be the wiser,
    but like i said u dont want one,, it obvious
    “Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.”
    ― George Bernard Shaw
  • Sncjw
    Sncjw Posts: 3,577 Forumite
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    Well stop blaming others and being jealous of others. Change your attitude and you probably will have girlfriend eventually. I wouldn't want to be with you with your stinking attitude.
    Mortgage free wannabe 

    Actual mortgage stating amount £75,150

    Overpayment paused to pay off cc 

    Starting balance £66,565.45

    Current balance £56099

    Cc around £3200 

  • lovinituk
    lovinituk Posts: 5,711 Forumite
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    sam_m wrote: »
    But i want to change. I really want to change.
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  • sam_m
    sam_m Posts: 429 Forumite
    But i want all that i want to be married. And what do you mean i don't want a partner. OF COURSE I WANT A PARTNER.
  • prosaver
    prosaver Posts: 7,026 Forumite
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    sam_m wrote: »
    But i want to change. I really want to change.
    i want to win the lottery but if i dont buy a ticket ill never win.

    got 25 pound win 2 weeks ago
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    “Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.”
    ― George Bernard Shaw
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