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British Asian Marrying Divorced Moroccon Woman

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  • lemontart
    lemontart Posts: 6,037 Forumite
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    how about (call me old fashioned) taking a lot more time to get to know her, meet her relatives and freinds etc - why risk bringing a virtual stranger into your childrens lives let alone yours. If have doubts just walk away
    I am responsible me, myself and I alone I am not the keeper others thoughts and words.
  • waamo
    waamo Posts: 10,298 Forumite
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    Huge language barrier. Do you not speak Arabic?
  • Guest101
    Guest101 Posts: 15,764 Forumite
    Ally4u wrote: »
    Hi, I need some urgent help. If your a British male and have married a Moroccon lady your wisdoms are required.
    I met a Moroccon lady on a matrimonial website. We had a huge language barrier so after 5 days I decided to go see her in Morocco. When we met she said she was happy to marry me. My concern is she is divorced, no children and lives alone in Marrakesh of all places. I have been told Marrakesh is the capital of prostitution in Morocco and the lady in question is fairly modern.
    I myself am divorced with 4 children so I can't just take a chance. I have assets too. I'm torn between marrying her or not marrying her. Please help or advise with experiences you have had. I hear most are visa seekers but you can't say that for sure?

    Marry her, immediately, before someone else does!
  • KRB2725
    KRB2725 Posts: 685 Forumite
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    Why would you marry someone who is a stranger to you?

    It might be an idea to actually spend time with and learn to communicate with the person you are intending to spend the rest of your life with.

    There's no polite way to say this, but you're an absolute idiot if this is true and you marry her.
  • jaylee3
    jaylee3 Posts: 2,127 Forumite
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    sfry wrote: »
    It's half term.
    Pollycat wrote: »
    Damn!
    You beat me to it! :mad:

    Firstly, it's not half term, it's the Easter holidays!

    Secondly, why do people assume that if there is an (alleged) troll post, that it's school children doing it? Most trolling is done by (bored) adults. (Probably middle aged and older!)
    emmatthews wrote: »
    Why would you marry someone who is a stranger to you?

    It might be an idea to actually spend time with and learn to communicate with the person you are intending to spend the rest of your life with.

    There's no polite way to say this, but you're an absolute idiot if this is true and you marry her.

    This ^^^ :T
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  • Ally4u
    Ally4u Posts: 5 Forumite
    Lemontart - I think your right, I should get to know more about her relatives and friends etc. I have the children to think about.

    emmathews - Sometimes you fall in love ... love can blind you.

    Cherry - The language barrier does not allow me to get to know her properly or her friends and relatives.
  • Ally4u
    Ally4u Posts: 5 Forumite
    Lemontart - I think your right, I should get to know more about her relatives and friends etc. I have the children to think about.

    emmathews - Sometimes you fall in love ... love can blind you.

    Cherry - The language barrier does not allow me to get to know her properly or her friends and relatives.
  • candygirl
    candygirl Posts: 29,455 Forumite
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    Sam_Fallow wrote: »
    DON'T DO IT!

    I thought I was going to marry a moroccan, but I called it off after finding lots of dessicated coconut flakes everywhere, it turned out she was a macaroon.

    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
    "You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf"

    (Kabat-Zinn 2004):D:D:D
  • Sncjw
    Sncjw Posts: 3,562 Forumite
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    When you get married you will be asked questions about each other to make sure it's genuine. They can report the potential marriage to immigration if they think it's a false marriage for a visa. Form what you said I would think they would say that it is a false marriage for a visa.
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  • KRB2725
    KRB2725 Posts: 685 Forumite
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    I'm sorry but how do you fall in love with someone that you've met once and can't converse with?

    Are you sure it's not lust at first sight rather than love? To fall in love you usually need a meeting of minds - very difficult with a language barrier.

    You have four children, ask them how they would feel about you marrying a stranger and ask yourself how you would feel if it was one of them wanting to do it?

    Love may blind you, don't let it make you stupid.
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