Saw more messages between BF and ex. He told her he wants them to be together...

indiepanda

I would still be concerned about the lengthy daily chats with the ex.

I kept in touch with my ex as a friend but I hardly spoke to him when I was dating another man and I backed off when I heard he had a new girlfriend, no one needs to have an ex hanging about when they are trying to form a new relationship.

Why is he spending so much time texting her when he could be talking to you?

justme111

Haha , he literally written he would like to be with her and now he is saying he did not mean it ! What a wan.er.

trey101

Hi again folks, I have an update and it's good news!!

Things are going strong between us and I've come to the conclusion this was all completely my own insecurities.

My BF mentioned today that his ex has now got a new boyfriend and said how happy he is for her. He showed me some texts and he was wishing her the best and said that he hopes she's happy.

I think this shows he doesn't have he feelings for her that we thought he had. Feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulder knowing she's moved on and that my BF is happy for her!

marliepanda

trey101 wrote: »

Hi again folks, I have an update and it's good news!!

Things are going strong between us and I've come to the conclusion this was all completely my own insecurities.

My BF mentioned today that his ex has now got a new boyfriend and said how happy he is for her. He showed me some texts and he was wishing her the best and said that he hopes she's happy.

I think this shows he doesn't have he feelings for her that we thought he had. Feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulder knowing she's moved on and that my BF is happy for her!

Him telling someone else he wanted to be with them is you being insecure? Ok.

He probably only backed off as she has a new bloke.

The fact he actually went out of his way to show you 'look how happy I am for my ex?' Nah. This is unhealthy

annandale

Sorry, he's been playing you and her and she's now moved on.

Pollycat

I hope it works out for you.