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  • greent
    greent Posts: 10,956 Forumite
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    You have my totally sympathy re household goods and cars and issues!!! Fingers crossed you can get the boiler chap out asap and the CH back working.
    I am the master of my fate; I am the captain of my soul
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  • themadvix
    themadvix Posts: 9,381 Forumite
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    Hope your neck is feeling better today and the cold continues to go. I feel your pain re the household goods - our electric shower broke yesterday, completely unexpectedly, which added to the fun of getting decorating finished! Hope car issue is nothing major too.
    Mortgage free 16/06/2023! £132,500 cleared in 11 years, 3 months and 7 days

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  • Suffolk_lass
    Suffolk_lass Posts: 10,807 Forumite
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    Central Heating man coming this afternoon. We (well He) think(s) it is the burner. We have done as he asked and reset, and checked the oil (to make sure no-one had stolen it all!). I can make it fire but it doesn't stay on, suggesting burner, apparently.

    Someone coming to talk through some stuff with me shortly then I must ring the garage. DH doing the lights in the van (replacing the dangerous old ones) with low-voltage LEDs - they are not great quality so he is modifying them by adding plastic guard-blocks to hide the wiring. One of them is dead where it all went wrong with a flip of a hot soldering iron (we had one spare) - I have just given encouragement to persevere!
    Save £12k in 2025 #2 I saved £14,660.97 of £6000 or 244.35% of my target. The 2026 Save £12k in 2026 thread is here
    OS Grocery Challenge in 2025 I finished the year at £2880.99/£3000 or 96.03% of my annual spend so I am sticking with a £3000 annual budget for 2026
    I also Reverse Meal Plan on that thread and grow much of our own premium price fruit and veg, joining in on the grow your own in 2026 discussion thread
    My keep within our budget diary is here
  • Suffolk_lass
    Suffolk_lass Posts: 10,807 Forumite
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    Oh dear. It was the other pump (one for heating replaced last year, this is the other one). Just under ten years old. Sadly that was £190 :eek: but we can't manage with no hot water even if we can with no heating!
    Save £12k in 2025 #2 I saved £14,660.97 of £6000 or 244.35% of my target. The 2026 Save £12k in 2026 thread is here
    OS Grocery Challenge in 2025 I finished the year at £2880.99/£3000 or 96.03% of my annual spend so I am sticking with a £3000 annual budget for 2026
    I also Reverse Meal Plan on that thread and grow much of our own premium price fruit and veg, joining in on the grow your own in 2026 discussion thread
    My keep within our budget diary is here
  • missymoo81
    missymoo81 Posts: 8,049 Forumite
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    Hey SL,
    I’m so sorry you’re so poorly! But gosh you’re Managing to do so much.
    And bless you I hope your heating gets sorted that’s the last thing you need!
  • Suffolk_lass
    Suffolk_lass Posts: 10,807 Forumite
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    Thanks missymoo81, I'm pretty much on the mend now. Just a relief to have the appliances working really.

    We are both sat at our desks, at opposite ends of the house, on our computers. Oh the bliss of married life! I must get on with my day in a minute. Just one more coffee first...
    Save £12k in 2025 #2 I saved £14,660.97 of £6000 or 244.35% of my target. The 2026 Save £12k in 2026 thread is here
    OS Grocery Challenge in 2025 I finished the year at £2880.99/£3000 or 96.03% of my annual spend so I am sticking with a £3000 annual budget for 2026
    I also Reverse Meal Plan on that thread and grow much of our own premium price fruit and veg, joining in on the grow your own in 2026 discussion thread
    My keep within our budget diary is here
  • missymoo81
    missymoo81 Posts: 8,049 Forumite
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    SL me and OH sat face to face in a coffee shop yesterday working on our phones barely saying a word! We’ve been married 6 months!!!
  • rtandon27
    rtandon27 Posts: 6,357 Forumite
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    ...We are both sat at our desks, at opposite ends of the house, on our computers. Oh the bliss of married life!...

    SL - you are not the only one - OH & I routinely park ourselves in different rooms just to be alone with our own thoughts:D - means we can tolerate each other the rest of the time :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
    4 YEARS 10 MONTHS DEBT FREE!!! (24 OCT 2016)
    (With heartfelt thanks to those who have gone before us & their indubitable generosity.)
    ...and now I have a mortgage! (23 AUG 2021)
    Original End Date - Sept 2041 New projection - Dec 2039 (reduced by 21 months)
  • Suffolk_lass
    Suffolk_lass Posts: 10,807 Forumite
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    Well we could not be free with our online friends if we were conducting a conversation with our other halves, could we!?

    Actually, DH has taken on a bike club role that needed him to set up lots of things on the interweb - so he was busy doing that!

    - Me? I was researching kitchen refresh costs (very taken with some discussions on edinburgher's thread). I would like to replace some pretty (ie I still like them) rather dates checkerboard of 3 coloured tiles with an updated splashback and windowsill - DH still likes them. My position is that there is a crack to be addressed and the grout between the wall and the work surface needs doing - his position is that we want to minimise the expense.

    The big issue is the need to address the cracked glass hob which is a size of cut out that nobody makes (except one, which would cost £1000). Replacing the 40ml thick granite it sits in is not an option. Period. No discussion on that one.

    We could get the cut out cut larger but then the hob would be wider too, and the cupboards that butt up to the overhead extractor are already showing signs of steam-related deterioration so they would need to be replaced and the left one is already only 300mm wide, so the only option would be to replace the 600mm wide double door cupboard with a single narrower one, but that would mean the extractor being moved 100mm to the right so it is central to the gap. Hmm. Then the tiles would need to be extended (we have spares - naturally!) or replaced. I favour a board with no grout.

    If the top layer of the laminated glass hob could be delaminated safely, DH could commission a stainless steel fabricator to make one. Or we could spend a £1000 on a new hob that fits. Oh my, 1st world problems!
    Save £12k in 2025 #2 I saved £14,660.97 of £6000 or 244.35% of my target. The 2026 Save £12k in 2026 thread is here
    OS Grocery Challenge in 2025 I finished the year at £2880.99/£3000 or 96.03% of my annual spend so I am sticking with a £3000 annual budget for 2026
    I also Reverse Meal Plan on that thread and grow much of our own premium price fruit and veg, joining in on the grow your own in 2026 discussion thread
    My keep within our budget diary is here
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